Advent Calendar

The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar

For the last three years I have completed some sort of D/s Advent Calendar. If you are interested, you can find the details here, but essentially they were about giving to HL, celebrating our dynamic, and doing something nice for each other in the run-up to Christmas. This year has been so different for everyone and many of us have headed online more than ever for support and friendship. We have really enjoyed being able to connect with others at the SWC and, although life in that sense has not changed as much for HL and I, we are aware that for others they will have missed out on the kinky interactions they used to get from their local groups.

So this year, we thought we would make our Advent Calendar a community project in the hope that it would allow us all to share some positivity in what has been such a challenging year for all. We came up with the tasks during the D/s discussion on the site last night, but would love as many of you to join in with it as possible. The tasks are there as a guide and there is no right or wrong so interpret them as you wish because there are no real rules. If you want to do each day then great, but if you dip in and out according to the task and your own time then that is also fine too.

We have created an Advent Calendar Forum where you can see the tasks. There is a thread for each day so please just let us know what you got up to by posting a reply to the relevant thread. If you have a blog and want to post something there and leave us a link then that works for us too. You can be as creative as possible so add a picture or a comment or whatever it is that allows you best to express yourself. The idea is simply to have fun with friends and spread a little festive spirit.

We are aware that not everyone is in a dynamic currently but that doesn’t matter at all. We know that Vixen has been working hard for the past few months welcoming Doms and subs from the other side of the pond, so we hope that this will also be a way of getting to know our kinky friends from other parts of the world who aren’t able to make it to the weekly chats we host due to time differences or other practicalities. To this end, we have created a new chat room where you can leave messages and ask questions about the tasks too.

So without further ado, we are proud to unveil, the SafeworD/s Club first ever Kinky Community Advent Calendar.

  1. Get the Tinsel Out– Find a creative way to show your Dominant or your submissive side by celebrating with tinsel.
  2. Candy Canes – Whether you are going for the sweet treat or the impact version, show us your best D/s candy cane ideas.
  3. Harness those Reindeer– Create yourself a bit gag and get ready for some fun.
  4. Christmas Stockings – Take a photo of your Christmas stockings – it can be naughty or nice.
  5. Edge to Orgasm – Edge yourself or your partner 5 times and then let go and enjoy
  6. 6 Things – List 6 things about yourself or about someone else that you love.
  7. Baby it’s Cold Outside – Christmas is about the warm and fuzzies. Do something which you think will warm someone’s heart. Can be a partner or someone else. Can be naughty or nice.
  8. 8 Maids a’ Milking – Either intense Nipple play or Cock play for 8 minutes.
  9. Melting Moments – Today is all about wax play. Create a festive design or just have fun.
  10. Present Yourself – Either in photo or to someone else, today is about being a present so wrap yourself up or decorate yourself in a bow. Present yourself in a way you think they will like and away you go.
  11. Christmas Dress Up – Find a way to bring a little bit of Christmas into your lives with some dress up. Can be full role play or a sneaky undergarment.
  12. Are you being served? – Provide a service to someone without being asked.
  13. 13 Things about D/s – Today’s gift is to list 13 things that you love about Dominance or submission then share for us here or on your blog.
  14. Festive Fantasy – Share your festive fantasy. Can be spoken to someone or written and shared in forum or on blog, just remember to leave us a link.
  15. Naughty and Knickerless – No knickers (or pants/briefs) for you today. Lets all go commando and report for duty to tell us how it was for you!
  16. Glass of Christmas Cheer – Today is about fun and pleasure so your task is to use a glass dildo or decorative toy on yourself or someone else.
  17. Kinky Christmas– Give a kinky Christmas gift to someone. It can be a kinky photo or story, or even a secret shared etc.
  18. What’s in Santa’s sack? – Have a number of toys hidden and chose one randomly to play with either on your own or have someone chose one for you or have your partner use it on you. Subs you can see where this is going!
  19. Decorate Yourself (or someone else) – This one is open to interpretation but we are challenging you to decorate yourself in any way you want – can be with plugs, clamps, or something else.
  20. 20 minutes to orgasm – Either for yourself or someone else, this is about 20 minutes of pure pleasure so just kick back and enjoy!
  21. Blurred Body Parts – This is a task which you can bring to our SWC Christmas Party. Send to HL by PM before the party tomorrow.
  22. Christmas Party – Come along and join the Christmas fun for the final chat.
  23. Oh Christmas Tree – A photo of your tree with maybe a naughty you too!
  24. Play with those Christmas Baubles – Time for some breast or ball play to complete the advent fun. Remember to check back and let us know what you got up to
  25. HAPPY CHRISTMAS – All that remains is to wish you all a very happy Christmas for all at the SafeworD/s Club. Thank you so much for joining in our advent celebration. We hope that you have had as much fun as we have and it has helped to put you in the festive mood.


If you have a blog and aim to post about your daily challenges and tasks, then feel free to use this badge to promote the project. Just paste the badge onto your post somewhere and use this link to the forum.

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