Intimacy

Intimacy

What is Intimacy? Intimacy is a feeling of knowing another person deeply and feeling deeply known by them. It is created over time and comes from a deep connection on a number of levels. There are different types of intimacy, including physical, emotional, experiential and intellectual. Often people assume that intimacy is about a sexual […]

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humiliation was a limit

Erotic Humiliation was a Limit

Erotic humiliation as a concept was a hard limit for me at first because of my history. The idea of allowing myself to to be vulnerable in such a way was unthinkable because it terrified me. As the relationship between my Sir and I evolved, he nurtured a trust from me that I thought I […]

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humiliation was a limit

Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power

I am a private person. I wouldn’t like to be seen as vulnerable or on the flip side, as some sort of warrior princess hero thing. I like to blend in with a crowd, not one for attention (she says putting things into words for others to read haha). I think it would be fair […]

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emotional needs

Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly

Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a focus on gifts, and on the sexy and spicy aspects of relationships, but without feeling supported on an emotional level, many of the grander gestures will fall flat. Being in […]

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