Intimacy

Intimacy

What is Intimacy? Intimacy is a feeling of knowing another person deeply and feeling deeply known by them. It is created over time and comes from a deep connection on a number of levels. There are different types of intimacy, including physical, emotional, experiential and intellectual. Often people assume that intimacy is about a sexual […]

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humiliation was a limit

Erotic Humiliation was a Limit

Erotic humiliation as a concept was a hard limit for me at first because of my history. The idea of allowing myself to to be vulnerable in such a way was unthinkable because it terrified me. As the relationship between my Sir and I evolved, he nurtured a trust from me that I thought I […]

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Consent

Consent is a serious topic and it is a complicated and contentious area in BDSM. For us consent is always present unless a safe word is used, but in reality Sir would never ask me to do something that I didn’t want to. The level of trust we have is huge and it means that […]

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Trust

Trust is vital in any relationship.  It is one of the cornerstones and without it the relationship will soon start to crumble.  In a relationship based on Domination and submission, trust is equally important, but unlike many other relationships, it is tested on an everyday basis, for only within an environment of complete trust, are […]

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