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Why Dress?
Exploring Dominance and Submission

Why Dress?

09/01/202204/04/2022 Susie

Susie is my crossdressing submissive self. In this blog post, I explore why I dress and talk to others about why they dress. I have

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Brats – The Wild Submissives
Living a D/s Lifestyle Oldies but Goodies

Brats – The Wild Submissives

13/08/201905/04/2022 Guest Author

Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to

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Collar n cuffs
Play, scenes and kink

Collar n cuffs

03/08/201904/04/2022 lilly

We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I

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Submission and I
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Submission and I

18/02/201918/02/2019 lilly

I had a little fantasy in my little box, locked away until….. you guessed it, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. I’ve never been a lover of

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Play, scenes and kink

Primal play – bite me

02/12/2018 kisungura

Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with

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Topic Chat / Shaping submission / 8pm-9pm BST

As a Dominant, how do you shape your sub’s behaviour? How do you influence them and which tools of the power exchange do you use?

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Lounge / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our new Thursday discussions. Doms discussion: Scene ideas and your favourites. subs discussion: Is it easier to submit body or mind?

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Building a D/s Dynamic

Consent, Safety and Aftercare

13/01/201804/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given.  This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another.  We

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Community

SWC Book Group

30/11/2017 Missy (Founder)

We are pleased to announce the arrival of our brand new SWC Book Group. Please CLICK HERE to join the group and then we will keep you

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Community

Hello Yellow

09/10/201709/10/2017 Missy (Founder)

Tomorrow is World Metal Health day so I wanted to take a minute just to raise awareness for that.  At work we are wearing a

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Building a D/s Dynamic

The Power Exchange

01/10/2017 Missy (Founder)

The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, but it is not something

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Dom and sub Topic Chat / Impact Play / 8pm-9pm

Please join me for this week’s chat on impact play – from crops to paddles to canes to ……., we will be talking about what works, how

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Dom and sub Topic Chat / Toy Show & Tell / 8pm-9pm

This week’s topic is a toys show and tell.  Please come along to share your favourite toys and tell us how you like to use them.

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It's Time To Close The Club

We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!

 

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