As a Dominant, how do you shape your sub’s behaviour? How do you influence them and which tools of the power exchange do you use? If you are a sub,…
Brats – The Wild Submissives
Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to Tell Me About… and we…
Collar n cuffs
We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I would have one anyway. We…
Submission and I
I had a little fantasy in my little box, locked away until….. you guessed it, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. I’ve never been a lover of books but started to read…
Primal play – bite me
Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with sexual vampirism but, generally, most…
D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Lounge / from 8pm GMT
Please drop in to our new Thursday discussions. Doms discussion: Scene ideas and your favourites. subs discussion: Is it easier to submit body or mind? Dominant discussion is held in…
Consent, Safety and Aftercare
In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given. This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another. We have discussed limits, both hard…
SWC Book Group
We are pleased to announce the arrival of our brand new SWC Book Group. Please CLICK HERE to join the group and then we will keep you up-to-date via email about what…
Hello Yellow
Tomorrow is World Metal Health day so I wanted to take a minute just to raise awareness for that. At work we are wearing a ‘touch of yellow’ in order…
The Power Exchange
The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, but it is not something which is easy to explain….
Dom and sub Topic Chat / Impact Play / 8pm-9pm
Please join me for this week’s chat on impact play – from crops to paddles to canes to ……., we will be talking about what works, how and why. Please come along…
Dom and sub Topic Chat / Toy Show & Tell / 8pm-9pm
This week’s topic is a toys show and tell. Please come along to share your favourite toys and tell us how you like to use them. If you bring a few…