In relationships, knowing your partner’s limits and boundaries is essential. If you don’t know what they are then you can’t observe them. Neither can you push them. In a D/s relationship this is even more important. Observing limits and boundaries is part of building trust in the other person. So is communicating around your own […]
Continue readingThis week we are sharing thoughts on how to keep safe during play. From the care of our toys, to the use of safewords, to planning for emergencies, we look at how to make sure that things don’t go wrong.
Continue readingWhen we first started out, HisLordship and I looked over a limits list together. It is really important in a D/s relationship that you are aware of what each other’s limits are. The open communication you have together mean that it is usually not a difficult thing to discuss and it can actually be a […]
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