rituals

Rituals: the why the how and the what

Why we have rituals For most D/s couples, rituals are quite an important part of what they do. Although they are often the small things, an action, a word, a deed, they can help to keep the right mindset for both of you. They do this by reinforcing the power exchange and essentially highlighting the […]

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Topic Chat / Rules and Rituals / 8pm-9pm BST

Please come and join us in The Dungeon for a chat about Rules and Rituals. How do you use rules and rituals to support your dynamic? Are they the glue in your relationship? What works and has value? Please schedule us in and join us for this week’s topic chat.

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Respect the Rules

Rules are pretty key to our relationship, although even without that I am a person who likes to have rules to follow. I suppose that is why a D/s marriage works so well for me as having rules and structure makes me feel safe. It makes sense of things and makes me feel as though […]

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‘It aint what you do it’s the way that you do it.’

To quote Bananarama, “It aint what you do it’s the way that you do it, and that’s what gets results.” This is something that I think is important when you are thinking about your relationship, particularly if you are introducing D/s to an existing relationship or thinking about establishing or reviewing the rules and rituals […]

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