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Growing My Submission 
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Growing My Submission 

15/02/202205/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

I recently read a book in which the main characters were challenged to shake up their D/s dynamics by trying new things, different partners and/or

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How To Put Yourself In BDSM Restraints
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How To Put Yourself In BDSM Restraints

22/10/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

With more and more relationships taking place online these days, submissives are finding themselves doing many of the things their Doms usually do. Putting themselves

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A Day Without Panties in the Florida Heat!
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A Day Without Panties in the Florida Heat!

15/08/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Sometimes, you just have to learn lessons the hard way. Sundays are errand days and a few Sundays back I had quite a bit of

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What’s In a Name: Names and Honorifics
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What’s In a Name: Names and Honorifics

27/07/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

The current writing prompt on the Tell Me About… site is “names and honorifics”. An honorific is a “title that conveys esteem, courtesy, or respect

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My Master Made Me a Wooden Horse
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My Master Made Me a Wooden Horse

16/07/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Dear Home Depot, I don’t usually write letters (everyone says that don’t they lol) but I was so happy with an experience involving your store

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Addicted to Love ~ the truth about subfrenzy
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Addicted to Love ~ the truth about subfrenzy

13/07/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Many new submissives experience subfrenzy without knowing anything about it. Although subfrenzy is something discussed in most BDSM circles, the can be a scarcity of

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A Day in the Dungeon
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A Day in the Dungeon

14/06/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

What follows is a fantasy that I have written from the viewpoint of my PuppetMaster. This was an assignment He gave me as a way

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What I Have Learned Being a Slave
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What I Have Learned Being a Slave

30/05/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Three months ago I was lost, confused, hurt and probably a little angry. I wasn’t sure who I was, something I had never experienced before,

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Meeting My Master For the First Time
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Meeting My Master For the First Time

22/05/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Shortly after beginning our relationship, an opportunity presented itself for my Master to visit me for a few days in May. Tentative plans were made

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What Do I Get Out of Being a Sex Slave?
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What Do I Get Out of Being a Sex Slave?

08/05/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

I am a slave. There are many types of D/s dynamics, and often couples fall into more than one type or category, or they may

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The Pain of Submission: Into Life Tears Must Fall
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The Pain of Submission: Into Life Tears Must Fall

02/05/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Any new relationship will have its challenges, and I will go so far as to say a BDSM relationship probably has more than a “vanilla”

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A Day in the Life…What Does Training Look Like?
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A Day in the Life…What Does Training Look Like?

21/04/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Daily tasks, rules and rituals are an important part of some (most?) D/s relationships. They are different for each couple and are specific to what

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Time To Play-BDSM Long Distance
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Time To Play-BDSM Long Distance

18/04/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Did I mention my Master lives 2,500 miles away from me? Talk about safety in distance! Fortunately for me, my PuppetMaster has some experience with

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Welcome to Submission…Panties and Punishment
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Welcome to Submission…Panties and Punishment

12/04/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

Panties. I admit I haven’t given them much thought until recently. Sure, in my younger years I had all the flavors: lacy bikinis, thongs, g-strings,

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How’d a girl like you…
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How’d a girl like you…

06/04/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

end up in a place like this? Good question. It started innocently enough: bad football, interesting conversation, lunch, no kiss, more conversation, I’m a dominant,

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Getting to Know Me by BabyGirl
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Getting to Know Me by BabyGirl

17/09/201905/04/2022 babygirlvan19

To understand my D/s marriage, I think it is important that I give some insight into me as a person. I am 23. I graduated

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It's Time To Close The Club

We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!