He said, “Yes, sort of… The beginning of our married D/s dynamic was a surprise, and like many couples, I, the submissive, initiated it.
Tag: married D/s
Beginning D/s and finding support
It is not unusual to have people say it must be easier beginning D/s within a long term marriage. I believe that may be true
When Life Gets in the Way – Tell Me About
I don’t own a blog, nor have much experience by the way of a D/s lifestyle, but I am able to relate at some level
Resets – what, why and how
What is a reset? I am not sure if resets are things which exist formally in D/s relationships or if they are something we have
Remembering Sir Needs Care Too
I often forget that Sir goes through times where he does not want me to send him texts about what naughty things I want Sir
Spanking and me
Spanking had never been a something we dabbled in. It had never been discussed. Never seen in a movie or read in a book. Never
Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a
Being a middle
I have lots of friends who identify as being little and are in DD/lg type dynamics. I had always thought that wasn’t me so it
Thinking about playing in public?
The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer
Fishnet Stockings, Where’s The Catch?
It wasn’t always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum bought clothes in the 1970s
Roleplay
We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay as the marmite of BDSM
Consent, Safety and Aftercare
In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given. This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another. We
A new Dom’s tale. To infinity and beyond
Here we are around 6 months into this journey. I was asked to write this and was initially nervous about writing it as I consider
Trust
Trust is vital in any relationship. It is one of the cornerstones and without it the relationship will soon start to crumble. In a relationship
Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it