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Tag: Kink

The lube we love ~ stick around and read on
Play, scenes and kink

The lube we love ~ stick around and read on

05/04/202205/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Although in some corners of our still very vanilla world lube might be viewed as a shameful product, bought by people who are past their

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Leather Care Tips from Leatherman
Featured Play, scenes and kink

Leather Care Tips from Leatherman

28/11/202104/04/2022 Leatherman

Leather care for collars, cuffs, floggers, and whips. The smell is deeply earthy and slightly intoxicating.  The feel is strong, sometimes buttery soft and sometimes

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What you need to know about Electroplay
Play, scenes and kink

What you need to know about Electroplay

10/07/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Electroplay is something that we enjoy and through chats on the topic, we have managed to pique the interest of some of the other members

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When Reality becomes Fantasy
Play, scenes and kink

When Reality becomes Fantasy

23/02/2020 lilly

In the words of my Sir. SX Reality… So, we plucked up the courage to visit the sex/swinger’s club for the third time. Full of

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Self Reflection. Me?
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Self Reflection. Me?

01/01/202006/01/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I

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Holidays are coming
Exploring Dominance and Submission

Holidays are coming

17/06/201905/04/2022 lilly

Yay, holidays are coming but wait…  Usually we have a couple of afternoons to ourselves each week, to do what we want, be as noisy

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Always have a Safeword
Play, scenes and kink

Always have a Safeword

08/04/201928/05/2019 lilly

A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I

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Tell Me About … Bondage
Play, scenes and kink

Tell Me About … Bondage

21/03/201928/05/2019 lilly

Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same

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Accessories and Mindset
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Accessories and Mindset

03/02/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part

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Play, scenes and kink

Primal play – bite me

02/12/2018 kisungura

Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with

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Play, scenes and kink

Thinking about playing in public?

18/11/2018 kisungura

The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer

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Play, scenes and kink

Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs

14/10/2018 Missy (Founder)

Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view

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Play, scenes and kink

Puppy Play

16/09/201823/09/2018 Littlegem

  I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way anyone else would, but

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Emotional Masochism
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Emotional Masochism

10/09/201804/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would

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Living a D/s Lifestyle

An interview with me myself and I – One year on.

09/09/201809/09/2018 Mr H (sweetgirl)

So here we are.  Been a while hasn’t it, but I did warn you. So settle in.  A little over a year has passed since

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Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative

11/08/201804/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

The power of the imagination Storylines and narrative can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form

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Topic Chat / Planning for Play / 8.30pm-9.30pm BST

Whether you are sub or Dom, we want to know how you plan for play. Are there things that you always do in order to

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Like to build your own fucking machine?
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Like to build your own fucking machine?

24/07/201806/04/2022 MrHamD

For some time I’ve looked through different videos that more or less show detailson fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and

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Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes
Play, scenes and kink

Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes

23/07/201821/10/2019 Missy (Founder)

We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly the roles for Dom and

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Play, scenes and kink

Kinky DIY

16/07/2018 HisLordship (Founder)

I have to admit that I am partial to a bit of DIY. It all stems from my Dad, who in my younger days, would

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