Electroplay is something that we enjoy and through chats on the topic, we have managed to pique the interest of some of the other members who have also now tried…
When Reality becomes Fantasy
In the words of my Sir. SX Reality… So, we plucked up the courage to visit the sex/swinger’s club for the third time. Full of excitement and anticipation we drove…
Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I am with myself. Well the…
Holidays are coming
Yay, holidays are coming but wait… Usually we have a couple of afternoons to ourselves each week, to do what we want, be as noisy as we like, but with…
Always have a Safeword
A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I can only think of 1…
Tell Me About … Bondage
Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same time. The excitement because I…
Accessories and Mindset
The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part of play, to tapping in…
Primal play – bite me
Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with sexual vampirism but, generally, most…
Thinking about playing in public?
The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer is a resounding no, others…
Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs
Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view as safe and in indeed…
Puppy Play
I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way anyone else would, but I hope that it will…
Emotional Masochism
I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would have said back in the…
An interview with me myself and I – One year on.
So here we are. Been a while hasn’t it, but I did warn you. So settle in. A little over a year has passed since sweetgirl asked me to consider…
Once Upon a Time
Story-lines and narratives can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form this may include playing games together where you use…
Topic Chat / Planning for Play / 8.30pm-9.30pm BST
Whether you are sub or Dom, we want to know how you plan for play. Are there things that you always do in order to be ready? How do you…
Like to build your own fucking machine?
I’ve for some time looked through different videos that more or less show details on fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and there. The result is…
Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes
We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly the roles for Dom and sub are quite different with…
Finding a Community
Sometimes you just get one of those overwhelming feelings that what you have done is right. That is it has all come together and it is what you wanted it…
Topic Chat / Best Scene Ever / 8pm-9pm EDT
The topic for Thursday’s chat this week is the best scene ever so please join Lars and slars in the Dungeon from 8pm EDT to share all the juicy details…