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Leather Care Tips from Leatherman
Leather care for collars, cuffs, floggers, and whips. The smell is deeply earthy and slightly intoxicating. The feel is strong, sometimes buttery soft and sometimes
What you need to know about Electroplay
Electroplay is something that we enjoy and through chats on the topic, we have managed to pique the interest of some of the other members
When Reality becomes Fantasy
In the words of my Sir. SX Reality… So, we plucked up the courage to visit the sex/swinger’s club for the third time. Full of
Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I
Holidays are coming
Yay, holidays are coming but wait… Usually we have a couple of afternoons to ourselves each week, to do what we want, be as noisy
Always have a Safeword
A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I
Tell Me About … Bondage
Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same
Accessories and Mindset
The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part
Primal play – bite me
Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with
Thinking about playing in public?
The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer
Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs
Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view
Puppy Play
I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way anyone else would, but
Emotional Masochism
I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would
An interview with me myself and I – One year on.
So here we are. Been a while hasn’t it, but I did warn you. So settle in. A little over a year has passed since
Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative
The power of the imagination Storylines and narrative can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form
Like to build your own fucking machine?
For some time I’ve looked through different videos that more or less show detailson fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and
Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes
We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly the roles for Dom and
Kinky DIY
I have to admit that I am partial to a bit of DIY. It all stems from my Dad, who in my younger days, would
Finding a Community
Sometimes you just get one of those overwhelming feelings that what you have done is right. That is it has all come together and it