With more and more relationships taking place online these days, submissives are finding themselves doing many of the things their Doms usually do. Putting themselves into wrist and ankle restraints…
A Day Without Panties in the Florida Heat!
Sometimes, you just have to learn lessons the hard way. Sundays are errand days and a few Sundays back I had quite a bit of running around to do. I…
Focus Questions for working on Dominant submissive foundations
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at the foundations of your D/s. If you are starting out in a D/s…
Choosing your names and honorifics in a Dominant submissive relationship
Choosing your names and deciding which honorifics to use is a topic which comes up quite a bit with those who are new to the lifestyle. As with many things,…
What’s In a Name: Names and Honorifics
The current writing prompt on the Tell Me About… site is “names and honorifics”. An honorific is a “title that conveys esteem, courtesy, or respect for position or rank when…
My Master Made Me a Wooden Horse
Dear Home Depot, I don’t usually write letters (everyone says that don’t they lol) but I was so happy with an experience involving your store that I just had to…
A Day in the Dungeon
What follows is a fantasy that I have written from the viewpoint of my PuppetMaster. This was an assignment He gave me as a way to see how much I…
What I Have Learned Being a Slave
Three months ago I was lost, confused, hurt and probably a little angry. I wasn’t sure who I was, something I had never experienced before, or what I wanted. Now,…
Meeting My Master For the First Time
Shortly after beginning our relationship, an opportunity presented itself for my Master to visit me for a few days in May. Tentative plans were made and we hoped for the…
What Do I Get Out of Being a Sex Slave?
I am a slave. There are many types of D/s dynamics, and often couples fall into more than one type or category, or they may not fit into any defined…
The Pain of Submission: Into Life Tears Must Fall
Any new relationship will have its challenges, and I will go so far as to say a BDSM relationship probably has more than a “vanilla” relationship does. There is so…
A Day in the Life…What Does Training Look Like?
Daily tasks, rules and rituals are an important part of some (most?) D/s relationships. They are different for each couple and are specific to what the Dom is trying to…
Time To Play-BDSM Long Distance
Did I mention my Master lives 2,500 miles away from me? Talk about safety in distance! Fortunately for me, my PuppetMaster has some experience with an online D/s relationship. A…
Welcome to Submission…Panties and Punishment
Panties. I admit I haven’t given them much thought until recently. Sure, in my younger years I had all the flavors: lacy bikinis, thongs, g-strings, matching bra sets, even the…
How’d a girl like you…
end up in a place like this? Good question. It started innocently enough: bad football, interesting conversation, lunch, no kiss, more conversation, I’m a dominant, want to play, Ohhh that…
Focus questions for working on Dominant submissive Mindset
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at Dominant submissive mindset. Mindset, accessing and maintaining it, was one of…
Resets – what, why and how
What is a reset? I am not sure if resets are things which exist formally in D/s relationships or if they are something we have made up, but if it…
Communication and D/s
Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are love, trust, respect, honesty and open communication, but really we…