I recently read a book in which the main characters were challenged to shake up their D/s dynamics by trying new things, different partners and/or
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The importance of effective communication in a D/s relationship
Effective communication is one of the foundations of a Dominant submissive relationship. Actually, effective communication is one of the foundations of any healthy relationship, but
How To Put Yourself In BDSM Restraints
With more and more relationships taking place online these days, submissives are finding themselves doing many of the things their Doms usually do. Putting themselves
A Day Without Panties in the Florida Heat!
Sometimes, you just have to learn lessons the hard way. Sundays are errand days and a few Sundays back I had quite a bit of
Focus Questions for working on Dominant submissive foundations
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at the foundations of your D/s. If you are
Choosing your names and honorifics in a Dominant submissive relationship
Choosing your names and deciding which honorifics to use is a topic which comes up quite a bit with those who are new to the
What’s In a Name: Names and Honorifics
The current writing prompt on the Tell Me About… site is “names and honorifics”. An honorific is a “title that conveys esteem, courtesy, or respect
My Master Made Me a Wooden Horse
Dear Home Depot, I don’t usually write letters (everyone says that don’t they lol) but I was so happy with an experience involving your store
A Day in the Dungeon
What follows is a fantasy that I have written from the viewpoint of my PuppetMaster. This was an assignment He gave me as a way
What I Have Learned Being a Slave
Three months ago I was lost, confused, hurt and probably a little angry. I wasn’t sure who I was, something I had never experienced before,
Meeting My Master For the First Time
Shortly after beginning our relationship, an opportunity presented itself for my Master to visit me for a few days in May. Tentative plans were made
What Do I Get Out of Being a Sex Slave?
I am a slave. There are many types of D/s dynamics, and often couples fall into more than one type or category, or they may
The Pain of Submission: Into Life Tears Must Fall
Any new relationship will have its challenges, and I will go so far as to say a BDSM relationship probably has more than a “vanilla”
A Day in the Life…What Does Training Look Like?
Daily tasks, rules and rituals are an important part of some (most?) D/s relationships. They are different for each couple and are specific to what
Time To Play-BDSM Long Distance
Did I mention my Master lives 2,500 miles away from me? Talk about safety in distance! Fortunately for me, my PuppetMaster has some experience with
Welcome to Submission…Panties and Punishment
Panties. I admit I haven’t given them much thought until recently. Sure, in my younger years I had all the flavors: lacy bikinis, thongs, g-strings,
How’d a girl like you…
end up in a place like this? Good question. It started innocently enough: bad football, interesting conversation, lunch, no kiss, more conversation, I’m a dominant,
Focus questions for working on Dominant submissive Mindset
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at Dominant submissive mindset. Mindset, accessing and
Resets – what, why and how
What is a reset? I am not sure if resets are things which exist formally in D/s relationships or if they are something we have
Consent
Consent is a serious topic and it is a complicated and contentious area in BDSM. For us consent is always present unless a safe word