Do you use mind fucks in you play? If you do, how do you use them? Are they an effective turn-on for both parties? Join us in the Dungeon from…
Topic Chat / Something New / 8pm-9pm GMT
How do you bring something new into your D/s relationship, or for that matter, take something out. This week we explore the way Doms & subs introduce new elements to…
Topic Chat / Seeing the Power Exchange / 8pm-9pm GMT
Often we are not overt in letting others know that we are living in a power exchange relationship, but how far do we allow others to see the D/s elements…
Topic Chat / Tried It Once / 8pm-9pm GMT
D/s is very much about exploration and the two of you doing it together. Whilst its always good to try something new, what have you tried or experimented with in…
Topic Chat / Kinky Mismatch / 8pm-9pm BST
We hope that with good discussion we can aim to be on the same sexual page as our partners, but sometimes this isn’t possible. Sometimes our kinks just don’t or…
Topic Chat / Planning D/s / 8pm-9pm BST
What role does planning play in managing your dynamic? Most people probably plan for scenes to some degree, but do you plan for other areas too, such as date nights,…
Topic Chat / Disobedience / 8pm-9pm BST
How do you deal with disobedience? Whether or not you are, or are with, a bratty sub, this week we are asking how you deal with disobedience. How do you…
Topic Chat / Shaping Dominance / 8pm-9pm BST
As a submissive, how do you encourage dominant behaviour? How do you use the power exchange to nurture and support your Dom, especially in the beginning? If you are a…
Topic Chat / Hot Seat: PS and gem / 8pm-9pm BST
As suggested by PS and gem, our newest feature is a member Q and A session. Tonight PS and gem are in the hot seat so come and ask them…
Topic Chat / Shaping submission / 8pm-9pm BST
As a Dominant, how do you shape your sub’s behaviour? How do you influence them and which tools of the power exchange do you use? If you are a sub,…
Topic Chat / Effective Communication / 8pm-9pm BST
Whether you are a Dom or a sub, getting your words out sometimes can be difficult. This week we are talking about tips for how to communicate effectively when you…
Topic Chat / Disobedience / 8pm-9pm BST
How do you deal with disobedience? Whether or not you are, or are with, a bratty sub, this week we are asking how you deal with disobedience. How do you…
Topic Chat / Masturbation / 8pm-9pm BST
How do you use masturbation in your relationship? Is it still something you do alone or do you masturbate for each other? And then there is mutual masturbation – the…
Topic Chat / Dynamic Breakdown / 8pm-9pm BST
Don’t panic, it’s not permanent! Today we discuss what techniques you have in place to deal with a breakdown in your D/s relationship. This could be caused by illness, communication,…
Topic Chat / Sub Space & Dom Space / 8pm-9pm BST
This week we are discussing sub-space and Dom-space. What is it? How do achieve it? Join us for this week’s chat in The Dungeon at 8pm.
Topic Chat / Anal Play / 8pm-9pm BST
Please join us this week for some anal chat; getting started, anal toys and anal sex. Let’s bare all and open up for our anal chat tonight.
Topic Chat / Public Play / 8pm-9pm BST
In line with the latest Tell Me About topic, tonight we are chatting about public play. Do you play in public in front of others at events and if so,…
Topic Chat / Keeping Safe / 8pm-9pm BST
Whether it is keeping safe during play or a scene or being safe when online and out in the local community, safety is so important. Come along to discuss your…
Topic Chat / D/s and the holidays / 8pm-9pm BST
Have you found that the break of routine for holidays and other events can put pressure on your D/s? Can being around vanilla relatives and friends make it more tricky…
Topic Chat / Primal Play / 8pm-9pm BST
Do you enjoy raw, animalistic play? Do you love a struggle or enjoy things such as biting, scraping or wrestling? Whether you are an experienced primal player or just interested…