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Topic Chat / Mind Fucks / 8pm-9pm GMT

Do you use mind fucks in you play? If you do, how do you use them? Are they an effective turn-on for both parties? Join

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Topic Chat / Something New / 8pm-9pm GMT

How do you bring something new into your D/s relationship, or for that matter, take something out. This week we explore the way Doms &

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Topic Chat / Seeing the Power Exchange / 8pm-9pm GMT

Often we are not overt in letting others know that we are living in a power exchange relationship, but how far do we allow others

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Topic Chat / Tried It Once / 8pm-9pm GMT

D/s is very much about exploration and the two of you doing it together.  Whilst its always good to try something new, what have you

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Topic Chat / Kinky Mismatch / 8pm-9pm BST

We hope that with good discussion we can aim to be on the same sexual page as our partners, but sometimes this isn’t possible. Sometimes

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Topic Chat / Planning D/s / 8pm-9pm BST

What role does planning play in managing your dynamic?  Most people probably plan for scenes to some degree, but do you plan for other areas

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Topic Chat / Disobedience / 8pm-9pm BST

How do you deal with disobedience? Whether or not you are, or are with, a bratty sub, this week we are asking how you deal

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Topic Chat / Shaping Dominance / 8pm-9pm BST

As a submissive, how do you encourage dominant behaviour? How do you use the power exchange to nurture and support your Dom, especially in the

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Topic Chat / Hot Seat: PS and gem / 8pm-9pm BST

As suggested by PS and gem, our newest feature is a member Q and A session. Tonight PS and gem are in the hot seat

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Topic Chat / Shaping submission / 8pm-9pm BST

As a Dominant, how do you shape your sub’s behaviour? How do you influence them and which tools of the power exchange do you use?

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Topic Chat / Effective Communication / 8pm-9pm BST

Whether you are a Dom or a sub, getting your words out sometimes can be difficult. This week we are talking about tips for how

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Topic Chat / Disobedience / 8pm-9pm BST

How do you deal with disobedience? Whether or not you are, or are with, a bratty sub, this week we are asking how you deal

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Topic Chat / Masturbation / 8pm-9pm BST

How do you use masturbation in your relationship? Is it still something you do alone or do you masturbate for each other? And then there

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Topic Chat / Dynamic Breakdown / 8pm-9pm BST

Don’t panic, it’s not permanent!  Today we discuss what techniques you have in place to deal with a breakdown in your D/s relationship. This could

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Topic Chat / Sub Space & Dom Space / 8pm-9pm BST

This week we are discussing sub-space and Dom-space. What is it? How do achieve it? Join us for this week’s chat in The Dungeon at

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Topic Chat / Anal Play / 8pm-9pm BST

Please join us this week for some anal chat; getting started, anal toys and anal sex. Let’s bare all and open up for our anal

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Topic Chat / Public Play / 8pm-9pm BST

In line with the latest Tell Me About topic, tonight we are chatting about public play. Do you play in public in front of others

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Topic Chat / Keeping Safe / 8pm-9pm BST

Whether it is keeping safe during play or a scene or being safe when online and out in the local community, safety is so important.

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Topic Chat / D/s and the holidays / 8pm-9pm BST

Have you found that the break of routine for holidays and other events can put pressure on your D/s? Can being around vanilla relatives and

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Topic Chat / Primal Play / 8pm-9pm BST

Do you enjoy raw, animalistic play? Do you love a struggle or enjoy things such as biting, scraping or wrestling? Whether you are an experienced

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