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Beginning D/s and finding support
Building a D/s Dynamic

Beginning D/s and finding support

12/07/202112/07/2021 MrC’s AussieGirl

It is not unusual to have people say it must be easier beginning D/s within a long term marriage. I believe that may be true

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D/s Discussion / Foundations / 8pm-9pm BST

What is the most important part of your D/s relationship? Let’s talk specifics. Meet in the lounge from 8pm: new members always welcomed.

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Topic Chat / D/s Myths / 8pm-9pm GMT

So often we compare ourselves to what we think we need to be in order to fit in with the idea of what a Dominant

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Topic Chat / Hot Seat: HL & Missy / 8pm-9pm GMT

As suggested by PS and gem, our newest feature is a member Q and A session. Tonight HL and Missy are in the hot seat

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Topic Chat / Why not What / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week we are sharing thoughts not just on what we do, but on why we do it. There can be a tendency to rush

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Topic Chat / Managing Edge Play / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week we ask how those of you who use Edge Play for fun do it safely.  What scenarios can you share, experiences, suggestions and

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Topic Chat / Respect / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week is all about respect.  We know that this is one of the foundations of a D/s relationship, but how can you build respect

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Topic Chat / When play goes wrong / 8pm-9pm GMT

No matter how much you plan or how experienced you are, sometimes play just doesn’t go as you expect it to. How do you manage

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Topic Chat / Adding an Edge / 8pm-9pm GMT

When kinky play becomes the norm, how do you add an edge to keep up the excitement and thrill?  How do you use dialogue and

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Topic Chat / Romance / 8pm-9pm GMT

February is meant to be the month of romance so the topic today is how you live within a power exchange but still keep things

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Topic Chat / Physical Health and D/s / 8pm-9pm GMT

Tonight we are talking about physical health and D/s. How do physical health challenges and limitations affect people and how do you manage and work

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Topic Chat / Mental Health and Wellbeing / 8pm-9pm GMT

Tonight we are talking about Mental Health and Emotional Well Being. How do such challenges affect people and their D/s? What can you put in

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Topic Chat / Oral Sex / 8pm-9pm GMT

What part does oral sex play in your D/s?  Is it simply a type of play or has it come to mean more than that?

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Topic Chat / Sensation Play / 8pm-9pm GMT

Tonight we are talking about sensation play, including using pleasure and pain as sensation, the pluses and minuses of temperature play and the impact of

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Topic Chat / Pre-Play Planning / 8pm-9pm GMT

Yes it’s PPP! Pre-Play Planning.  Today we discuss what activities take place in your relationship before play and what expectations there are. Getting both of

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A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night
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A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night

06/01/202006/01/2020 Sweet (MrH)

Twice a week we have a chat here on The SafeworD/s Club, it’s a bit like a munch really, an informal gathering of like-minded kinky

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Topic Chat / Hogmanay Live / 8pm-9pm GMT

Clearly many of us are out partying hard on New Years Eve, but for those who would rather snuggle up with a nice glass of

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Topic Chat / Consensual Non-Consent / 8pm-9pm GMT

What is it that attracts people to scenes and play which involve Consensual Non-Consent. What is the thrill in abduction, interrogation or some sort of

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Topic Chat / Uniform Fetish / 8pm-9pm GMT

What is behind a uniform fetish? Why is there enjoyment in wearing uniforms?  How does it help to support the power exchange? Join us in

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Topic Chat / Fear / 8pm-9pm GMT

This chat had to be postponed due to site issues on the 27th October Getting with the Halloween theme and our seeming interest in the

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