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Beginning D/s and finding support
Building a D/s Dynamic

Beginning D/s and finding support

12/07/202112/07/2021 MrC’s AussieGirl

It is not unusual to have people say it must be easier beginning D/s within a long term marriage. I believe that may be true

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A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night
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A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night

06/01/202006/01/2020 Sweet (MrH)

Twice a week we have a chat here on The SafeworD/s Club, it’s a bit like a munch really, an informal gathering of like-minded kinky

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Review, Reflection and Resolutions
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Review, Reflection and Resolutions

02/01/201926/01/2019 Missy (Founder)

Thank You What with all the festive fun, we are a little bit later than intended in wishing you all a very happy new year.

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Topic Chat / Virtual Toy Box / 8.30pm-9.30pm GMT

This week we are looking into your virtual toy box. What are those things you don’t yet own and would like to buy, or does

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Topic Chat / Satisfying emotional needs in D/s / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week the topic is Satisfying emotional needs in D/s. How do you fill your partner’s emotional tank, and what self care do you implement to

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Topic Chat / Keeping Safe / 8pm-9pm BST

Whether it is keeping safe during play or a scene or being safe when online and out in the local community, safety is so important.

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Topic Chat / Tried It Once / 8pm-9pm GMT

D/s is very much about exploration and the two of you doing it together.  Whilst its always good to try something new, what have you

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Topic Chat / Objectification / 8.30pm-9.30pm GMT

This week we are talking looking at Objectification, which in some ways is ironic don’t you think?

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Topic Chat / Small things in your D/s/ 8pm-9pm GMT

This week the topic is: What are the small things you do that count in your D/s Please come along and share you thoughts and

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Topic Chat / Impact Toys and Techniques Pt 1 / 8pm-9pm BST

We have chatted quite a bit about impact play, so this week we have made some additional swinging space to look at the toys themselves

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Topic Chat / Fear / 8pm-9pm GMT

This chat had to be postponed due to site issues on the 27th October Getting with the Halloween theme and our seeming interest in the

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Topic Chat / Little Middle Dynamics / 8.30pm-9.30pm GMT

This week we are talking at Little / Middle Dynamics. So come along and see the other side!

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Topic Chat / Back to the Future / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week the topic is: What advice would you give yourself if your travel back to the begining? Please come along and share you thoughts

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Topic Chat / Impact Toys and Techniques Pt 2 / 8pm-9pm BST

Following on from our part 1 we are back again to look at more toys and the techniques you use. How do you make your

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Topic Chat / Seeing the Power Exchange / 8pm-9pm GMT

Often we are not overt in letting others know that we are living in a power exchange relationship, but how far do we allow others

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Topic Chat / Spanking / 8.30pm-9.30pm GMT

This week we are looking at Spanking. So it’s bottoms up!

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Topic Chat / Evaluation / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week the topic is; How to you evaluate how your D/s is working and how do you plan ahead? Please come along and share you

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Topic Chat / Anal Play / 8pm-9pm BST

Please join us this week for some anal chat; getting started, anal toys and anal sex. Let’s bare all and open up for our anal

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Topic Chat / Something New / 8pm-9pm GMT

How do you bring something new into your D/s relationship, or for that matter, take something out. This week we explore the way Doms &

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Topic Chat / Sub training / 8pm-9pm GMT

This week the topic is; Sub training and conditioning.  Please come along and share you thoughts and experiences with us in the Dungeon.

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It's Time To Close The Club

We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!