I wanted to share with you a bit of a chat update. This past year we have been so pleased to see the number of chats we host each week…
D/s Discussion / Messy Sex / 8pm-9pm GMT
When, why and how does messy become sexy? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
Topic Chat / Orgasm Control / 8pm-9pm
This week’s topic is orgasm control. From denying orgasms, to forcing orgasms to coming on command there is a lot to chat about this week. Whatever your experience so far,…
D/s Discussion / Resources for Play/ 8pm-9pm GMT
This is all about sharing! Where do you get your inspiration for play ideas? Be it on line friends, blog pages, videos or even the local library! Come and share!…
We are open for business! Chat as usual.
Due to Eroticon not going ahead we will be around to host a our regular Sunday chat.
D/s Discussion / Avoiding Injuries / 8pm-9pm GMT
Have you ever had any play related injuries? If so what were they and what could you do to prevent a re-occurrence? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon…
D/s Discussion / Designing a Sex Toy / 8pm-9pm GMT
Time to patent our ideas! If you were to design a sex toy, what would it be and how would it work? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon…
D/s Discussion / Co-Dependency / 8pm-9pm GMT
How do you feel about the fact that some people see D/s relationships as being co-dependent. How do you manage the balance of ‘need’ in your power exchange. Dominant discussion…
D/s Discussion / Reflective Tools / 8pm-9pm GMT
This week the topic for discussion is reflective tools. How do we use effective questioning and active listening to learn and grow as a couple. Dominant discussion is held in…
D/s Discussion / What is Age? / 8pm-9pm GMT
This week’s discussion is: How do you think age makes a difference to D/s and kinky play? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held…
D/s Discussion / Toys or Tongue? / 8pm-9pm GMT
With the advent of sex toys for pleasure, can we forget the simple things can be good? Which do you prefer, toys or tongue (or fingers, hands, other body parts…
D/s Discussion / Sex Positivity / 8pm-9pm GMT
We like to think that we are an open minded bunch of people here at the SWC, but how do you promote sex positivity within other parts of your life?…
D/s Discussion / Keeping it Quiet / 8pm-9pm GMT
Keeping quiet when there are others nearby can be a challenge. How do we enjoy the experience knowing that we have to stay silent? Dominant discussion is held in the…
D/s Discussion / Turn Ons / 8pm-9pm GMT
What are your biggest turn ons, and why? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night
Twice a week we have a chat here on The SafeworD/s Club, it’s a bit like a munch really, an informal gathering of like-minded kinky folk. We do have topics…
D/s Discussion / New Year D/s Goals / 8pm-9pm GMT
HAPPY NEW YEAR! With the new year under way we discussing what your have learnt last year year in your relationships and in your self. Also, what plans you may…
D/s Discussion / Holding Back / 8pm-9pm GMT
What are the kinks and fetishes that you are fascinated by, but hold back from? What is it that both attracts you and stops you from trying them out? Dominant…
D/s Discussion / Kinky Christmas Party / 8pm-9pm GMT
Welcome to our virtual kinky Christmas party. Who would you want to invite along and why? What activities and festivities would you include? Join us in the Lounge to have…
D/s Discussion / Vanilla Sex? / 8pm-9pm GMT
What is the balance in vanilla sex and kinky sex in your D/s play? Is it always kink, kink, kink, or are there times when vanilla is okay? What constitutes as…
D/s Discussion / Giving and Receiving / 8pm-9pm GMT
Both giving and receiving are huge parts of a power exchange dynamic. What is the balance of each in your relationship and how does it work? Dominant discussion is held…