Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead he scene and take your partner with you, but this is not something that seems to be explained very often. Over the past 10 years I have spoken to many people about aspects of play in a D/s context. As you […]
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Topic Chat / Shaping Dominance / 8pm-9pm BST
As a submissive, how do you encourage dominant behaviour? How do you use the power exchange to nurture and support your Dom, especially in the beginning? If you are a Dom, how do you shape your own behaviour? What do you do to make sure you keep your mindset as dominant as you can? Join […]
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Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to Tell Me About… and we are delighted that she agreed to write this piece for us. What is a brat in BDSM and D/s? Both within the kink community and […]
Continue readingD/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE! Topic: New Years resolutions and making plans – What are your D/s targets for the 2019? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
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Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Keeping It Kinky – How do you KIK during the holidays when you have a house full of family or you have had to travel to stay with other people? The distraction of trying to please everyone is nver easy on a D/s relationship! Dominant discussion is held […]
Continue readingD/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT
Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Kinky Clothing – What are you favourites or what have you secretly always fancied trying on but never dared? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
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Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Primal Play – Time to grab those clubs and throw on a tiger skin!! Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
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