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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene
Play, scenes and kink

Layering Communication for a Successful Scene

03/04/202206/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with

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Topic Chat / Shaping Dominance / 8pm-9pm BST

As a submissive, how do you encourage dominant behaviour? How do you use the power exchange to nurture and support your Dom, especially in the

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Brats – The Wild Submissives
Living a D/s Lifestyle Oldies but Goodies

Brats – The Wild Submissives

13/08/201905/04/2022 Guest Author

Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE! Topic: New Years resolutions and making plans – What are your D/s targets for the 2019? Dominant discussion is held in the

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Keeping It Kinky – How do you KIK during the holidays when you have a house full of

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Kinky Clothing – What are you favourites or what have you secretly always fancied trying on but never

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Primal Play – Time to grab those clubs and throw on a tiger skin!! Dominant discussion is held

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Finding an Alternative Headspace
Play, scenes and kink

Finding an Alternative Headspace

02/12/201826/01/2019 Littlegem

Everyone will be different as a headspace is very personal and individual. This is how it is for me and how it works in our

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Age Play  – Is this a step to far for you, something you have always wanted to try

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: What part does exhibitionism play in your D/s: fantasy and real life? Dominant discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: What role does spanking play in your dynamic  – If you’re a lover of hand on skin, where

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. Topic: Pervertables  – What everyday items do you have or have seen that make great additions to your toy

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm GMT

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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