He said, “Yes, sort of… The beginning of our married D/s dynamic was a surprise, and like many couples, I, the submissive, initiated it.
Tag: Dominance and submission
Focus Questions for working on Dominant submissive foundations
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at the foundations of your D/s. If you are
What you need to know about Middles
I started a forum thread about middles which you can find here. It seemed that being a middle was something that lots of people weren’t
Viewing of a submissive – first time camming
A bit of background For those of you who do not know me, I am Vixen Lee, Submissive of (Master) James Lee. This post is
What you need to know about Electroplay
Electroplay is something that we enjoy and through chats on the topic, we have managed to pique the interest of some of the other members
So you want to try rope play?
Rope play is the topic for Tell Me About this week and I realised we didn’t have a post about it on our blog so
Focus questions for working on Dominant submissive Mindset
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at Dominant submissive mindset. Mindset, accessing and
How to access and maintain a Dominant or submissive Mindset
A mindset is a set of beliefs which affects how you think, feel and behave. People refer to having a fixed mindset where you can
Setting goals for D/s
So welcome to the New Year and with that comes the thought of what we want to get from it in a variety of ways.
Tell Me About … Pain
For the majority of people who are into BDSM, pain and pleasure seem to walk hand in hand. How you feel and the way that
Life Change
As I look out the window on a bright sunny day, I notice the gentle breeze through the trees and wonder what it would feel
Getting to Know Me by BabyGirl
To understand my D/s marriage, I think it is important that I give some insight into me as a person. I am 23. I graduated
Rituals: the why the how and the what
Why we have rituals For most D/s couples, rituals are quite an important part of what they do. Although they are often the small things,
A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay
Roleplay within a BDSM context can be exciting for some and daunting for others, so we thought it would be a good idea to put
Tell Me About … Bondage
Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same
Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power
I am a private person. I wouldn’t like to be seen as vulnerable or on the flip side, as some sort of warrior princess hero
Submission and I
I had a little fantasy in my little box, locked away until….. you guessed it, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. I’ve never been a lover of
Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a
Accessories and Mindset
The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part
Tell Me About …
The SafeworD/s Club is proud to present ….. our newest project, ‘Tell Me About … Dominance and submission“. First we had the chat, then we