What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with
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The beginning of our married D/s dynamic
He said, “Yes, sort of… The beginning of our married D/s dynamic was a surprise, and like many couples, I, the submissive, initiated it.
Focus Questions for working on Dominant submissive foundations
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at the foundations of your D/s. If you are
When Life Gets in the Way – Tell Me About
I don’t own a blog, nor have much experience by the way of a D/s lifestyle, but I am able to relate at some level
Focus questions for working on Dominant submissive Mindset
This post is part of our Dom sub workbook and involves using focus questions to look more closely at Dominant submissive mindset. Mindset, accessing and
Setting goals for D/s
So welcome to the New Year and with that comes the thought of what we want to get from it in a variety of ways.
Then there were three ~ D/s outside a primary relationship
Sub Mace and Vixen Lee return to consider, together, how a D/s Dynamic outside of a primary relationship can work. Relationships with the people we
Discreetly showing a D/s-relationship in public
If you are in a 24/7-D/s-relationship, after some time the question may arise as to whether it would be possible to show this way of
Life Change
As I look out the window on a bright sunny day, I notice the gentle breeze through the trees and wonder what it would feel
It’s all yours Sir
During day to day life we work in unison. There is always a list of jobs to do as in every household. We each have
Tell Me About … Bondage
Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same
Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power
I am a private person. I wouldn’t like to be seen as vulnerable or on the flip side, as some sort of warrior princess hero
Life is a game of give and take
Our theme this week is ‘festive fun’ so it seemed to make sense to think about giving. There is a huge focus on giving during
Emotionally Bound
The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write
Roleplay
We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay as the marmite of BDSM