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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene
Play, scenes and kink

Layering Communication for a Successful Scene

03/04/202206/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with

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A Quick Guide to Getting Started with Impact Play
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A Quick Guide to Getting Started with Impact Play

12/11/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Before we get started, what is impact play? Impact play is when one person is hit or struck by another person for the sexual gratification

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How Do I Get My Dom To Listen?
Building a D/s Dynamic

How Do I Get My Dom To Listen?

29/10/202104/01/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

One of the key success factors of any relationship is effective communication. I know for sure over the years that my sub (Missy) has internally

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Self Reflection. Me?
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Self Reflection. Me?

01/01/202006/01/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I

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Topic Chat / Effective Communication / 8pm-9pm BST

Whether you are a Dom or a sub, getting your words out sometimes can be difficult. This week we are talking about tips for how

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D/s Discussion / Communication During a Scene / from 8pm BST

Topic: How do you communicate effectively during a scene? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge

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Always have a Safeword
Play, scenes and kink

Always have a Safeword

08/04/201928/05/2019 lilly

A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I

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Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly

11/02/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a

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I’m A Changing Man
Living a D/s Lifestyle

I’m A Changing Man

14/01/201926/01/2019 HisLordship (Founder)

There are people of various genders who have the role of dominant in their relationship, and find it something that is naturally a good fit.

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Surviving the Holidays
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Surviving the Holidays

17/12/201825/01/2019 Missy (Founder)

  We thought that it would be a good idea to do a collaborative post for this topic as everyone manages things a little differently.

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D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST

Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break

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Play, scenes and kink

Emotionally Bound

10/09/201810/09/2018 Sweet (MrH)

The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write

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Building a D/s Dynamic

Communication and D/s

24/09/201716/05/2021 Missy (Founder)

Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are love, trust, respect, honesty and

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Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track

03/09/201704/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it

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