Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead he scene and take your partner with you, but this is not something that seems to…
Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I am with myself. Well the…
Topic Chat / Effective Communication / 8pm-9pm BST
Whether you are a Dom or a sub, getting your words out sometimes can be difficult. This week we are talking about tips for how to communicate effectively when you…
D/s Discussion / Communication During a Scene / from 8pm BST
Topic: How do you communicate effectively during a scene? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.
Always have a Safeword
A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I can only think of 1…
Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a focus on gifts, and on…
I’m A Changing Man
There are people of various genders who have the role of dominant in their relationship, and find it something that is naturally a good fit. Equally there are many that…
Surviving the Holidays
We thought that it would be a good idea to do a collaborative post for this topic as everyone manages things a little differently. So here goes for our…
D/s Discussion / sub’s Lounge & Dom’s Saloon / from 8pm BST
Please drop in to our Thursday discussions. During the summer months while things are quieter we may opt to have one discussion rather than break out into the smaller groups….
Emotionally Bound
The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write about the bondage that we…
Communication and D/s
Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are love, trust, respect, honesty and open communication, but really we…
Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it is beautiful and there is…