What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with
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A Quick Guide to Getting Started with Impact Play
Before we get started, what is impact play? Impact play is when one person is hit or struck by another person for the sexual gratification
How Do I Get My Dom To Listen?
One of the key success factors of any relationship is effective communication. I know for sure over the years that my sub (Missy) has internally
Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I
Always have a Safeword
A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I
Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a
I’m A Changing Man
There are people of various genders who have the role of dominant in their relationship, and find it something that is naturally a good fit.
Surviving the Holidays
We thought that it would be a good idea to do a collaborative post for this topic as everyone manages things a little differently.
Emotionally Bound
The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write
Communication and D/s
Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are love, trust, respect, honesty and
Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it