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D/s Discussion / Genital Impact / 8pm-9pm GMT

Topic: Genital Impact – Better than a slap in the face? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Fisting / 8pm-9pm GMT

Topic: What is your experience of fisting? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers

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D/s Discussion / Disagreements / 8pm-9pm GMT

On this day in 1801, duelling was banned in Kentucky. Topic: How do you deal with disagreements in your relationship? Dominant discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Coming Out as D/s / 8pm-9pm GMT

Topic: How, and how far, have you come out as D/s? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Creativity / 8pm-9pm GMT

Dom’s Topic: What restricts your creativity and motivation in D/s and what have you learnt to overcome that? sub’s Topic: What things have you done

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D/s Discussion / DIrty Talk / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: Do you use dirty talk and if so, how, when, and what? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is

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D/s Discussion / Why is D/s sexy? / 8pm-9pm BST

Dom’s Topic: Which aspects of submission do you find sexy? sub’s Topic: Which aspects of dominance do you find sexy? Dominant discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Resources / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: Which are the best D/s/kink resources that you have found? Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Magic Wand / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: If you have a magic wand, what would you change about your D/s?   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive

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D/s Discussion / Words / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: What words or phrases turn you on?   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s

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D/s Discussion / Clothes / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: What type of clothes make you feel sexy and what type of clothes do you find sexy on your partner?   Dominant discussion is

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D/s Discussion / Swap-Shop / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: What toy would you take to a virtual swap-shop and what toy would you like to get in return?   Dominant discussion is held

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D/s Discussion / Fantasy / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: What fuels your fantasies?   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.

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D/s Discussion / Taboos / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: What things do you see as being sexual taboos?   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in

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D/s Discussion / Kinkiness / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: Do you think you become more or less kinky as you work through your various fantasies?   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s

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D/s Discussion / Boundaries / 8pm-9pm BST

Topic: As a couple, how do you explore limits and boundaries   Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held

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D/s Discussion / submission / 8pm-9pm BST

Dominant Topic: What does submission  mean to you and what qualities make a good submissive? Submissive Topic: What does submission  mean to you and what qualities

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D/s Discussion / Dominance / 8pm-9pm BST

Dominant Topic: What does Dominance mean to you and what qualities make a good Dominant? Submissive Topic: What does Dominance mean to you and what qualities

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D/s Discussion / Caregiving / 8pm-9pm BST

Dominant Topic: Are there elements of a Daddy or caregiver role within your dynamic? Is this something that was always there or has the power

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D/s Discussion / Dom sub switch / 8pm-9pm BST

Dominant Topic: What are your thoughts on switching roles? What are the advantages/disadvantages of playing a bottom role and could you make this work for

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