D/s safety

Starting out with BDSM Safety

BDSM can involve placing yourself in a vulnerable position, both physically and emotionally, so it goes without saying that safety will be on your mind. Whether you are Dominant or submissive, you are taking risks and you need to know and feel that this will be safe for you. Most BDSM play involves some risk […]

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D/s Discussion / Resources for Play/ 8pm-9pm GMT

This is all about sharing!  Where do you get your inspiration for play ideas?  Be it on line friends, blog pages, videos or even the local library!  Come and share! Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.  

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D/s Discussion / Co-Dependency / 8pm-9pm GMT

How do you feel about the fact that some people see D/s relationships as being co-dependent. How do you manage the balance of ‘need’ in your power exchange. Dominant discussion is held in the Dom’s saloon and submissive discussion is held in the sub’s lounge numbers permitting.  

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