The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm.  

 

We had two great TOPIC CHATS last week on D/s during the holidays and Primal Play. 

This TUESDAY the sub’s topic will be ACTIVE SUBMISSION.

Do you ever find that sometimes you need to do more than just follow your rules and complete your rituals to keep the dynamic going? Sometimes circumstances may dictate that we have to be more actively submissive, so come along to the chat from 8pm-9pm in THE SUB’s LOUNGE  to share ideas, swap experiences and find out what others do.

Meanwhile the Doms will be discussing HOW TO PLAN A SCENE so please come along and chat to other Dominants from 8pm-9pm in THE DOM’s SALOON about what has worked and what might not have been so successful. 

On WEDNESDAY we will also have another LITTLE PARTY which will take place in THE SNUG at 8pm-9.30pm EDT. 

As usual As usual we will start with a little bit of little discussion and this week the topic is MIDDLES. The theme for the party this time will be MY LITTLE PONY

 

Last week we had our first WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD so thank you to all of those who took part. The responses can still be viewed although the topic is now closed for further replies. However please come along and add your thoughts to this week’s topic:

What do you use for toy storage?

Please stop by the forum and have your say; the discussion will close on Sunday.

As an addition to the calendar for this week, we would like to let you know about a second Dom and sub topic chat. Due to the fact that most of our chats take place at a UK time, we wanted to offer something for those of you who are across the pond and may not be able to make the earlier time on a Tuesday. Hopefully some of you will be able to attend both!

The TOPIC for the chat this week will be PRIMAL PLAY and it will take place on WEDNESDAY from 8pm-9pm EDT in THE DUNGEON.

Do you enjoy raw, animalistic play? Do you love a struggle or enjoy things such as biting, scraping or wrestling? Whether you are an experienced primal player or just interested to know more, please come along and join EMILY for a topic chat on Primal Play and share your ideas, thoughts and experience.

As usual, the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm.  As of this week, our Monday chat will move to a SUNDAY which we hope will allow more of the members who are non UK based to attend. The first SUNDAY CHAT will take place on 23rd July.

 

We had a great TOPIC CHAT on munches last week, and this week we have two more focussed discussions.

On TUESDAY the topic will be on managing D/s DURING THE HOLIDAYS.

I am sure we have all found that a change in routine can make it difficult to use your usual rules and rituals and that this can have an impact on the connection between you. Please join us  from 8pm-9pm in THE DUNGEON to share your experience on the topic and offer any ideas of what has worked for you in the past. 

The second Topic Chat will be on WEDNESDAY and the focus will be PRIMAL PLAY. It will be led by EMILY and will take place in THE DUNGEON at 8pm-9pm EDT.

So if you like the sound of raw, animalistic play, love a struggle or want to know more then please come along and share your ideas, thoughts and experience. 

 

New to The SafeworD/s Club this week is our first WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD and the topic is:  Who in your vanilla life knows about your D/s and what was their reaction?

Please stop by the forum and have your say; the discussion will close on Sunday.

 

We are really pleased that so far we have had lots of members come along to support the chats. They have been going very well with lots of lively discussion about a variety of D/s related topics. Doms and subs alike have been able to engage with others and learn and share with them.

We realise that due to other commitments some of you may find it tricky sometimes to make the open chats or the topic chats and so we have introduced some new forums so that you can still discuss aspects of Domination and submission with fellow members. 

We have created forums under key headings to get us started, but are sure that members will have their own thoughts of what to add as the site grows, and can let us know in the Suggestions  forum.  Having the forums will also mean that more of the expertise and knowledge and information that is being shared in the chats, can now be stored in a format that is accessible to all. 

Please have a look, reply to a thread, or start a new topic.

As of this week, we also plan to have a Weekly Discussion Thread; the topic will be started on a Monday and will then be closed on the following Sunday. This will mean that members can still view the discussion at a later date, although they would not be able to add to it after that week. We hope that this will encourage people to contribute and also to encourage new members to the site. 

As usual, the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm.

 

We had a great TOPIC CHAT on rules and rituals last week; this TUESDAY the chat will be lead by Cuiplash and his submissive, Controlledascent. The topic will be MUNCHES and they will be talking about their own experience of attending and organising munches, as well as answering any questions you may have.  

So whether you are a regular munch attender, someone who is thinking about dipping their toe into their local community, or just someone who has an interest if what goes on, please come along and support them from 8pm-9pm in THE DUNGEON.

 

We also have a LITTLE PARTY scheduled on WEDNESDAY in THE SNUG, from 8pm-9.30pm EDT. 

The topic for discussion this week is ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover) and the theme will be ‘Garden Picnic,’ so please bring your picnic food along with you. 

(Please note that calendar times for this event are given in Eastern Daylight Time)

This week we continue with the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm.

Although we will not be able to be there for the whole night, the chat rooms remain open so that people in other parts of the world can come on and chat with others more local to them, so please stick around and say hello.  

Thank you to everyone who has come along to take part so far. There has certainly been lots of lively discussion on a variety of topics, from general chat, to the challenges of a D/s dynamic, to sharing thoughts and experience on specific areas of play.

 

Following on from our TOPIC CHAT on spanking last week, this TUESDAY we will be talking about RULES and RITUALS.

How do you use rules and rituals to support your dynamic? Are they the glue in your relationship? What works and has value?

Please schedule us in and join us for this week’s topic chat, from 8pm-9pm in THE DUNGEON.

Attention all littles out there.  I wanted to ask you to please support to my friends who have kindly agreed to host a chat for littles at The SafeworD/s Club tomorrow.  

Unlike most of our other chats so far, this one will take place in THE SNUG at 8-9 EASTERN DAYLIGHT TIME so may be more convenient for those of you across the pond. 

We will start with a little bit of little discussion about important little stuff, and a then move on to a lottle bit of a little party.

The theme this week will be ‘Getting to Know you’ so please bring along your favourite things and a coloring or drawing to share.

Littles Unite !!!!!!!!!!!  (pets welcome)

This week is a busy week at The SafeworD/s Club.

 

Not only will we have our regular open Dom and sub chats on Monday and Thursday from 7pm, but we also have our first Topic Chat.  

 

To spank start the topic chats on TUESDAY  we will be sharing our thoughts on SPANKING.

Please come along, ask questions and share your own experience, from 8pm-9pm in THE DUNGEON.

 

We also have our first ever LITTLE PARTY on WEDNESDAY in THE SNUG, from 8pm-9pm EDT.  

The theme this week will be ‘Getting to Know you’ so please bring along some of your favourite things and a coloring or drawing to share.

(Please note that calendar times for this event are given in Eastern Daylight Time)