CruelsSexPuppet

  • Not necessarily. I think what you are describing for you and your master is age play, not a DD/lg dynamic that is there all the time. But even in a full time DD/lg dynamic it can be sexual just like any other dynamic. The DD may provide stricter rules for his sub because she needs more structure in her life, or he may focus more as a caregiver…[Read more]

  • CruelsSexPuppet posted a new activity comment 2 days, 7 hours ago

    Thanks Missy. At least I have the book read now so I’ll be ready lol

  • CruelsSexPuppet posted a new activity comment 2 days, 11 hours ago

    No book club today?

  • Stray, one of the first things you need to know is that having DD/lg fantasies DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PEDOPHILE! Just as having rape fantasies doesn’t make you a rapist. We all have things that turn us on. One couple does play where the sub is a puppy, but her Dom has no more desire to have sex with a dog than your Dom does to have sex with a c…[Read more]

  • Hi stray. I am so sorry to hear about your relationship. That is so hard when you don’t understand why something is happening and there is nothing you can do about it. You have found a very supportive community here, and I assure you no one will judge or dismiss your feelings. We will offer, support, advice if you seek it, and probably ask a lot o…[Read more]

  • CruelsSexPuppet posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    If you click on your user name it will take you to your profile. The first tab there is Activity, and I responded under the Activity instead of the forum, which I really should have done. I’m going to copy my reply and paste it in the forum along with some other information for you.

    • Okay, thank you for clarifying. I didn’t mind where you answered, I just want to know where the message went because I clicked the notification that popped up so I wasn’t sure. Thank you again for your kind response

  • CruelsSexPuppet posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    Hi stray. I am so sorry to hear about your relationship. That is so hard when you don’t understand why something is happening and there is nothing you can do about it. You have found a very supportive community here, and I assure you no one will judge or dismiss your feelings. We will offer, support, advice if you seek it, and probably ask a lot o…[Read more]

    • Thank you for the welcome and reply. Go ahead and be nosy, I’m here to give and receive support so nosy is a given, right?

      • By the way, where is this conversation happening? It isn’t showing in the forum so is it a private message? Sorry to ask, but I’d like to learn my way around

        • If you click on your user name it will take you to your profile. The first tab there is Activity, and I responded under the Activity instead of the forum, which I really should have done. I’m going to copy my reply and paste it in the forum along with some other information for you.

          • Okay, thank you for clarifying. I didn’t mind where you answered, I just want to know where the message went because I clicked the notification that popped up so I wasn’t sure. Thank you again for your kind response

  • I hope she enjoys it as much as I do. 😈

  • I think it’s inevitable that tears will fall at some point. Misunderstandings happen, frustrations occur, sub drop hits, and life just happens. But hopefully the smiles and laughter far outnumber the tears. They have for me and I hope they do for you also. I do recommend writing, even if you don’t share it. It helps me to get thoughts out of my…[Read more]

  • Three months ago I was lost, confused, hurt and probably a little angry. I wasn’t sure who I was, something I had never experienced before, or what I wanted. Now, three months later, I have discovered a part of m […]

    • I think it’s inevitable that tears will fall at some point. Misunderstandings happen, frustrations occur, sub drop hits, and life just happens. But hopefully the smiles and laughter far outnumber the tears. They have for me and I hope they do for you also. I do recommend writing, even if you don’t share it. It helps me to get thoughts out of my head by writing them down. It usually helps clarify them also. So even if you delete it, writing out what you feel may be helpful. I do a brain dump where I don’t worry about making sense or proper grammar or structure, I just let the thoughts tumble out. I hope that helps you also.

      csp xx

  • CruelsSexPuppet replied to the topic New to D/s in the forum INTRODUCTIONS 2 weeks ago

    Welcome khaleesi. How exciting for you! I’m glad you found The Safewords Club and hate that our chat is broken this weekend. We have several scheduled chats but also tend to have impromptu chats when several of us just happen to be in the chat room at the same time.

    I think you already joined The Sub Space. Feel free to post any questions t…[Read more]

  • CruelsSexPuppet posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    Hi sami and welcome. I’m sorry no one was in chat earlier. It’s hit and miss during the day but keep trying in the main lounge. With the different time zones someone usually pops in to say hello.

  • Nonya, that was totally my fault and I apologize. If the profile doesn’t list the member as a sub, I send a message asking for more information just to be certain. If I don’t hear back, I don’t approve the request, so I may have missed sending or missed your reply. But I have sent you an invite to the group, so once you accept, you are autom…[Read more]

  • Hi Ms. Purple, thank you for taking the time to comment. All opinions are appreciated, whether from beginner or old pro, everyone has value. The pain issue is a very difficult one, both for me and my Master. He wants and needs it and while I do not like it, I want and need to give it to Him. I know I can say I can’t do it, and my Master has in f…[Read more]

  • Nonya, thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean so much to me. I am glad that my feelings make it through my writing to you. That is what I hope for as I write each blog.

    I hate hearing that your experience has been a negative one. Sometimes the Dom we find is just not the right one for us. And yes, sometimes they hide abuse…[Read more]

  • Thank you vix. You have been very instrumental in that growth. In fact, I wouldn’t even be here if not for your encouragement to stay in the first place. It is a journey, and I continue to learn every day.

  • Shortly after beginning our relationship, an opportunity presented itself for my Master to visit me for a few days in May. Tentative plans were made and we hoped for the best. As May drew closer, plans and dates […]

    • CSP you have blossomed beautifully before my eyes. I am so proud of you…VL

      • Thank you vix. You have been very instrumental in that growth. In fact, I wouldn’t even be here if not for your encouragement to stay in the first place. It is a journey, and I continue to learn every day.

    • Nonya, thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean so much to me. I am glad that my feelings make it through my writing to you. That is what I hope for as I write each blog.

      I hate hearing that your experience has been a negative one. Sometimes the Dom we find is just not the right one for us. And yes, sometimes they hide abuse behind the domination label. Are you a member of The Safewords Club? If not, I encourage you to check it out. There are wonder people there in all types of dynamics and you may be able to determine where your relationship really lies and if it’s what you want and is meeting your needs. At the very least, you will find support and information.

      csp

    • Nonya, that was totally my fault and I apologize. If the profile doesn’t list the member as a sub, I send a message asking for more information just to be certain. If I don’t hear back, I don’t approve the request, so I may have missed sending or missed your reply. But I have sent you an invite to the group, so once you accept, you are automatically approved.

      csp

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