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  • Thank you Missy. I popped in later that night, so I have now been able to read everything I have missed, and I get a great reminder of the whole chat at the same time.

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  • Thank you for having added this tip, Curvey^^. D/s protocols decided upon before the events are indeed a good help. They have helped lillith and me in the beginning of our ‘coming-out’, I think this tip can be valuable for many others as well.
    The different levels of protocol also make sense. lilith an I also have them, but as a lifestyle. We…[Read more]

  • If you are in a 24/7-D/s-relationship, after some time the question may arise as to whether it would be possible to show this way of living a bit in public. People who live this way don’t want to hide their l […]

    • I love this post TA. It is really interesting to be able to read and learn more about your relationship with lilith, but I also think that to have a source of great ideas of things which people can do to show what they are feeling in a subtle way, will be really helpful to others. Thank you for writing this – I am sure readers both new to D/s and the more experienced, will find it useful.

    • Thank you, missy.

    • So nice to read how your dynamic works outside if the home. I think many are worried what others may think but ultimately its up to what you are comfortable with.

    • This is a great post TA, especially for those who wish to have these kinds of rules or protocols in their dynamics.

      Sweetgirl x 😊

    • What a great post thank you for sharing I think the more you go out and have your Ds protocols decided upon before you attend an event the easier it is as well. Over the years we have established several different levels of protocol Sir Tex will always let me know before we head out that relieves my nerves and I understand and completely of what is expected of me. Curvey^^

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      Thank you for having added this tip, Curvey^^. D/s protocols decided upon before the events are indeed a good help. They have helped lillith and me in the beginning of our ‘coming-out’, I think this tip can be valuable for many others as well.
      The different levels of protocol also make sense. lilith an I also have them, but as a lifestyle. We apply them automatically, at home and at events.
      lilith is not nervous, but when she does know how to behave she automatically goes to the background, says little. This corresponds to the person she really is, so it works well.

    • Very glad to see an honest post on it. I initially posted this question on the forum as we are just starting out to expand beyond the home environment…and there is not much written about it.

      Our practice is similar to Curvey^^ ‘s ..we rely on protocols but only use them when just the two of us go out. We are still a bit cautious to use it on a full-on social gathering …

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