Hello Ali, I’m so sorry you find yourself in this situation and can hear the frustration in your words.

I’m very plain spoken and it is not my intent to upset you but you have reached out and this is what I would tell any girlfriend of mine who said what you have just said.

I am pretty new to D/s having only introduced it 18 months ago but MrH…[Read more]

Hi Vicky, welcome to TSWC.  This isn’t an easy one to answer as your submission is personal to you and your Dominant.  Steer clear of any one who tells you there is a “right way” as it’s a load of rubbish.  I chose to submit to my husband and Dominant- I don’t submit to anyone else and the rules we have are specific to us and developed ov…[Read more]

Hello, my blog has more details on how I broached this with my husband http://www.sweetgirlsjournal.wordpress.com but for me it started more as a “I’d like you to do this” after I asked him to read a little scene from 50 Shades of Grey (the first time he takes her into the room) and we went from there.  MrH did some research on his own and it initia…[Read more]

Hello, are you already in a relationship? There are a few blogs you can read that will tell you how some of us have discovered our roles.  Mine is http://www.sweetgirlsjournal.wordpress.com Missy has a fabulous blog http://www.submissy.com  and a relatively new couple Purple Sole and Little Gem have a blog http://www.purplesgem.home.blog

There are regular chats too o…[Read more]