Hello,

I did the same thing with my husband nearly 3 years ago.   My husband wrote about how he found it in a post on here https://thesafewordsclub.com/new-doms-tale-infinity-beyond/ and you husband may find that useful.

We found this website, especially the chats which are twice a week, Tuesdays and sundays at 8pm gmt a great source as well a…[Read more]

Hello

Lots of information there! Welcome to SWC.

One way to compartmentalise your play would be to have a specific signal or item to show the dynamic is in place.  Perhaps a collar she could put on you and remove at the end of the play session.

As for the fantasies, you should share them.  I worried about telling MrH what I fantasised about, t…[Read more]

Hi

What you’re describing sounds like what we sometimes refer to as sub frenzy.  The intense highs from play scenes become as you say addictive.  During the early months many of us feel this, and it does pass.  I imagine the lockdown has made this quite difficult too.

Sweetgirl

Hi There,

There are a few blogs I would recommend you read if you are interested in learning more.  Firstly there is submissy’s site, she is the hostess of the SafeworD/s Club and you will learn a lot from there.  Fetlife is another site with a plethora of information.  And, my own blog tells you about how I became a submissive wife.

I have me…[Read more]

I will try and think if I know someone with that dynamic.  I know someone in real life, well they are a couple who both have submissive partners.  They do not do kink together but she has a slave she plays with and loves and he has a play partner who he loves. But they don’t have a blog or Twitter presence for you to connect with.

Do try to m…[Read more]

Ok so, let me see if I’m understanding.   You have and are in a long term vanilla relationship,  and also have just started a D/s relationship with someone else?

Hi Nick,

First of all welcome!  Both myself and Submissy have blogs where you can read our experiences of how we felt as our dynamics grew.

It sounds like you got swept up in the frenzy which is quite normal.

My husband and Dominant Dominant wrote a piece about his first 6 months and this might also give you some…[Read more]