Sweet (MrH)

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Welcome to the site.  Very few people are comfortable with or able to discuss their sexual preferences with their real life friends.   MrH and I certainly don’t.

Here you will find many friendly people who will be happy to answer your questions.   We are a diverse group from around the world.

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Thanks Missy!

Well I’ve listened to it a few times to make sure its sunk in, and I’ve really enjoyed it.  I haven’t read any of her other books, I can’t wait for the chat next week!

I will say I recommended it to my mum because I enjoyed it so much.

Hello,

I did the same thing with my husband nearly 3 years ago.   My husband wrote about how he found it in a post on here https://thesafewordsclub.com/new-doms-tale-infinity-beyond/ and you husband may find that useful.

We found this website, especially the chats which are twice a week, Tuesdays and sundays at 8pm gmt a great source as well a…[Read more]

Hello

Lots of information there! Welcome to SWC.

One way to compartmentalise your play would be to have a specific signal or item to show the dynamic is in place.  Perhaps a collar she could put on you and remove at the end of the play session.

As for the fantasies, you should share them.  I worried about telling MrH what I fantasised about, t…[Read more]

Hi

What you’re describing sounds like what we sometimes refer to as sub frenzy.  The intense highs from play scenes become as you say addictive.  During the early months many of us feel this, and it does pass.  I imagine the lockdown has made this quite difficult too.

Sweetgirl

Hi There,

There are a few blogs I would recommend you read if you are interested in learning more.  Firstly there is submissy’s site, she is the hostess of the SafeworD/s Club and you will learn a lot from there.  Fetlife is another site with a plethora of information.  And, my own blog tells you about how I became a submissive wife.

I have me…[Read more]

I will try and think if I know someone with that dynamic.  I know someone in real life, well they are a couple who both have submissive partners.  They do not do kink together but she has a slave she plays with and loves and he has a play partner who he loves. But they don’t have a blog or Twitter presence for you to connect with.

Do try to m…[Read more]