• About 4 months ago I didn’t even know I was vanilla because I didn’t know what vanilla meant. Now I find myself in a non-vanilla relationship and I’m looking for advice. My fiance is interested in Domestic discipline and I don’t even know if that’s the same as D/s.

    Any advice for a new dom or top or whatever the lead in a DD relationship is? I…[Read more]

  • Rick started the topic Brand new to D/s in the forum INTRODUCTIONS 5 months ago

    Hello, my name is Rick. My fiance approached me a few months back about starting domestic discipline in our relationship. We recently moved in together, and it is something she wants to try to reach her goals. However, 3 months ago, I had no idea that domestic discipline was even a thing, and (probably like most guys) I don’t want to hurt the…[Read more]

  • Rick became a registered member 5 months ago