Pain is very much not for everyone and I wouldn’t worry if other subs can take pain or not, ultimately it is your experience and every dynamic is unique. By all means try new experiences, but I would advise that using your safeword isn’t something to fear, it shows you have reached your limit and reaching that limit is an achievement
PurpleSole commented on the post, Then there were three ~ D/s outside a primary relationship 1 year, 9 months ago
This was a really insightful piece and gives great perspective of those seeking something more. I hope this helps others that feel in similar positions.
What an interesting insight into your dynamic. So fresh too, sometimes you just know when it feels right. You’re so early in your D/s adventure. I look forward to hearing how you progress (if you wish to continue posting).