princessali commented on the post, Faith and the submissive 2 years, 1 month ago
I love this post!! I absolutely LOVE this post!! And your description of a playground with fences is PERFECT! I too am a person of faith (no longer inside a church though….long story), and I am a submissive. I found this “path” so to speak roughly 18 years ago, and just yesterday I posted to my blog concerning this exact topic. My entire…[Read more]
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princessali replied to the topic Childhood memories in subspace? in the forum PLAY, SCENES & TRAINING 2 years, 2 months ago
Yes, this can happen. But sometimes other traumas we have experienced, and shoved away, can also resurface. I’ve had things ranging from childhood to my teens resurface, and it is almost never nice when it does. And, deep down knowing these things CAN sometimes happen if/when I get totally lost in “sub space”, I rarely (very, very, very ra…[Read more]
princessali replied to the topic Middles Chat in the forum DD/lg (and other Big/little dynamics) 2 years, 2 months ago
I am definitely a middle, and more teen than little 🙂 And I have to agree with Missy that it is very, very difficult to find much information on middles. My age can vary, but always remains in the teens and tends to center in the middle teens. I think this is because I was literally forced to become an adult ON my 16th birthday. It was NOT…[Read more]
princessali replied to the topic Poll: Blankie or Stuffie in the forum DD/lg (and other Big/little dynamics) 2 years, 2 months ago
I like both, but blankies are my obsession! I’m not entirely sure how many I have total, but I have 2 that are almost always in my general area. They end up on the sofa with me if I watch TV, they end up on my bed when I sleep, and one often finds itself involved in playing with daddy 🙂 Stuffies I didn’t really develop a thing for until AFTER m…[Read more]
princessali replied to the topic Edge Play in the forum PLAY, SCENES & TRAINING 2 years, 2 months ago
Interesting topic considering that it is something that Sir and I have recently, very recently, discussed. I think that a lot of things can be considered “edge play” based on a person/couple’s hard and soft limits. Yet, the more deep you get into this lifestyle, the more (sometimes shocking) things you can find out about your partner.
I think t…[Read more]
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princessali replied to the topic Lost :/ in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 2 months ago
Thank you both for your responses, I do value the input.
I had spoken with a couple of subs in the sublounge yesterday morning, well morning for me anyways. And without going into as much depth as I did in this post, I asked them about a good way of going about having this much needed conversation. I spent the rest of the morning and half the a…[Read more]
princessali started the topic Lost :/ in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 2 months ago
Hi, I am “Ali” for lack of a better specific at the moment…although I do go by a few other names. I am a monogamous submissive who has been married to my Dom for 20 years, although D/s didn’t enter our relationship until a couple of years into our marriage. Like all couples, we have both grown and changed over the years. We raised our boys,…[Read more]
princessali replied to the topic D/s our journey after a year in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 2 months ago
Congratulations on finding what works for the two of you 🙂 And 20+ years of marriage to boot! My Dom and I have also been in a monogamous relationship for a little over 2 decades now. And, I will say that from a sub’s standing, open and honest communication is absolutely the best route to go.
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princessali replied to the topic Where did you meet your dom? in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 2 months ago
I met my Sir at…a Rodeo!! Seriously.
I should mention that at the time that we met, I was NOT looking for a relationship of any type! I was actually separated from someone and waiting for a divorce. I had hit a point where I had pretty much given up on finding a decent relationship, lol.
Anyways, the exact ins and outs of how we met is lo…[Read more]
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