I think you will find there are very many of us subs who are strong women, with feminist views as it relates to life, work and ourselves … and yes, the key being we are submissive because we choose to be. For me … when I held down a stressful, high level job in a male dominated industry, it was good to be able to hand the strength and control…[Read more]

Great post, Missy … I’m not a fan of the word training as it relates to our relationship either. Having been a ‘trainer’ in a job role in the past, to me the word describes the sharing of knowledge with others. In our D/sDD relationship over the years, I’ve been the one doing the research, gathering and imparting that knowledge to Frank and in…[Read more]

Hi bg … lI am a believer in ‘love at first sight’ which seems to be what you have found with your man, bg. I’m looking forward to the possibility of more posts about your journey. Thanks for taking that first step here … nj

I think your advice to play as close to who you are in order to be more authentic as resonated with me, MIssy. That and the fact Frank seems to have taken to the stage just fine has made it all doable for me … nj … xx

Loved your ‘how we got here’ story, Emma! … nj

Loved this post, Lilly …. a first hand account always has so much more meaning … thanks for sharing! … nj … xx