Hi RM,

It has been great getting to know you this past while. I have loved having you on the chat to share your thoughts and I love your blog too.

Thanks for adding your intro.

missy x

Hi Aussie Girl,

It was lovely to meet  you and chat today. I hope that you find it helpful here in terms of learning. And I am so glad that you took the plunge and asked for a D/s lifestyle dynamic. How exciting.

missy x

Hi FlameMarked,

Lovely to meet  you. I hope that  you will find some people who you can relate to here and who will share their own experience as that is a great way to learn. Please just shout if you have any questions.

Missy x

Hi L2B,

Thank you for adding your intro and encouraging others. 43 years experience – WOW. I looke forward to learning from you.

missy x

I agree with LoveToBeCruel, this is your dynamic so it is about what you want to get from it. Read and research and take the bits you like the sound of and leave the rest – there is no wrong way to do this so find a way that works for you so forget those who preach the one true way. When thinking about goals and rules and rituals we found it b…[Read more]

I’d say your first goal is to find out what each of you like and don’t like, what does and does not work for each of you. Listen to chats where people are talking about what they do, read forums and blogs about experiences and reflections on them. Some stuff  will make you perk up with interest, some stuff will make you wonder if people are…[Read more]

Hey weaver,

I haven’t been here very long but from what I’ve experienced so far there’s something here for everyone involved or at least interested in the D/s lifestyle. I personally haven’t met any female Doms here but I know of some female subs here that do who might be able to give you some advice or some reflection on their relationships. You…[Read more]

Keep on being your bratty self your Daddy will find you.

Rewards, punishments, and severity depend on the individual mostly but I’ll share my experiences.

Rewards:

Minor- Treats, new toys/accessories (stuffie, make-up, paints), bedtime extensions, playtime, (minor) bratty passes for little slip-ups, “5 more minutes” to spend on whatever activ…[Read more]