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- 14/08/2022 at 9:09 pm #64380
Hey Sparkle, welcome to the site! Feel free to ask questions, we will do our best to answer them.
We have weekly chats as well that you can join and ask questions at. They are listed under the events tab. The UK chats are on Sundays and Tuesdays, but lots of US folks attend as well. We love having new people attend the chats so feel free to join in. Please let me know if you need anything, and I look forward to seeing you in chat sometime.
- 29/05/2022 at 4:03 am #64135
As the others mentioned, chat apparently doesn’t like Chrome. It wouldn’t work on my phone either. I use Firefox on both platforms now and it works fine.
Keep trying! We will be glad to see you!
- 28/05/2022 at 3:20 am #64126
Welcome to the forum Kenslave… As to your question, D/s is all about honesty. There isn’t really another way to do it other than to sit him down and honestly tell him your feelings. My wife was the instigator of our D/s, because she had the courage to confess that she wanted to try this dynamic. I had no idea she wanted it and it wasn’t on my radar either. I wasn’t opposed, just hadn’t thought too much about it. Since I accepted her feelings, our already great marriage has become even more fantastic.
Of course, there is a risk of being rejected, but if you really want this sort of relationship with him, you have to be 100% honest, or the dynamic won’t work.
Best of luck to you!
- 27/05/2022 at 3:02 am #64115
Welcome Tsunade and Snicksnee! So glad you found your way here. Your story is fascinating and I am glad to hear you made it back to D/s in your own way! You will find that no one here will try to sell you on the “one true way” of D/s. We are all about finding what works for each dynamic. I hope you will join us for our chats, which you can find on the Events page.
We look forward to getting to know you both!
- 24/05/2022 at 3:32 am #64105
Welcome to the site! We are happy to have you (and Mister Walls) join us. For chats, check the events page for times/topics. Tues/Sundays are the UK chats which end up being in the afternoon for us here in the US, and we have a US evening chat on Fridays. We meet in the Main Lounge and then transition to another room for the topic chat, or you can stop by the Main Lounge anytime to see if anyone is around. This site caters to married D/s so I think you will find a lot in common with the other members. My wife and I have been married for 20 years and doing D/s 24/7 for two years now. Don’t be shy, and feel free to join in the chats. We are a very welcoming and accepting group! Hope to chat with you both soon!
- 10/05/2022 at 3:47 am #64040
Welcome to the site kitten. If you are looking for married D/s, you have come to the right place. If you are interested, we have scheduled chats that are listed in the events calendar. Generally, the UK hosted chats (afternoons for those here in the US) are Tuesdays and Sundays. We host a North American chat on Friday evenings. We meet in the Main Lounge (where people chat all throughout the day) and then move to one of the rooms for the scheduled chat. We are very welcoming of newcomers, so hopefully we will see you and L sometime. If you have any questions about the site, please feel free to ask.
- 29/04/2022 at 3:52 am #63978
Welcome to the site ElleMay. As Windy mentioned this site caters to married D/s, so you have come to the right place! My wife and I have been together for 22 years, but only D/s for the last 2 or so. Hopefully the timing will work out so you can make it to either the US or the UK chats. We would love to have you there! If you have any question, feel free to ask. We are pretty casual here, so please jump right in!
- 22/01/2022 at 3:23 am #63167
This has been around for awhile and we’ve been using it for over a year. It works well for our dynamic and I know a few others on here that use it for LDR as well. Others find they don’t like checklists. YMMV, but we are pretty happy with it.
- 19/12/2021 at 9:16 pm #62978
Since the party is over now…
We have been into photography lately…
- 18/12/2021 at 1:46 am #62959
- 14/12/2021 at 3:12 am #62923
- 14/12/2021 at 3:11 am #62922
Sorry we are late with this. Finally got a chance to take pics on our long weekend.
- 07/12/2021 at 2:46 am #62810
Welcome Ms. Mae! So glad to see a new Domme joining the site. We are all very welcoming here, so please feel free to ask any questions you may have. Check out the Events calendar. I hope that you can join in one of our scheduled chats. We would love to see you there!
- 05/12/2021 at 10:02 pm #62783
Welcome Grimm! You came to the right place. All of us have been where you are right now, so don’t be shy and feel free to ask questions. We have several chats during the week, with UK timed chats on Sundays and Tuesdays. Check out the Events calendar for topics and times. We welcome new people, so come join in. Your fiancee’/sub is more than welcome as well, and she can connect to other subs that can help answer any questions.
I hope we see you in the chats later!
- 30/04/2022 at 3:25 am #63986
We have chat’s on Friday nights at 9pm EST, so it will be pretty early in the morning for you I’m afraid (4am)… If you can’t sleep or are an early riser you are more than welcome to join us. The UK chats are on Sundays and Tuesdays at 8pm GMT, so you could probably make those. Many of the US folks joins as well since it is in the afternoon for us.
Hope we see you around!