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  • Missy commented on the post, Being a middle 4 days, 8 hours ago

    Yay. I am pleased too. It’s hard to find other middles 😊 let me know when your posts are up x

  • I think that is a hard one. We are not ployamarous and those who I know who are, don’t feel jealous in that way. Have you spoken to him about it so that he knows how you feel?

  • Thank you Queen’s Hubby. I am glad that it was helpful and that you are finding your own way. Finding what works for you is SO important. 🙂

  • Thanks sweet. Feel free to give an opposing view if that is how it works for you though. I can go off a bit on a rant lol

  • Our theme this week is ‘festive fun’ so it seemed to make sense to think about giving. There is a huge focus on giving during the festive period and it is also a key part of any D/s relationship – giving is for […]

    • I always enjoy your posts and thoughts 😊😊😊

      • Thanks sweet. Feel free to give an opposing view if that is how it works for you though. I can go off a bit on a rant lol

    • This is so helpful. We are still building our dynamic as we are newer to this, but this is what we believe it will look like and work best for us as well. Being married for over 2 decades, kids, and the expectation we’ll be doing this for many decades to come, means there has to be a lot of give and take with both Domme and Sub helping to keep each other in the right mindset.

      • Thank you Queen’s Hubby. I am glad that it was helpful and that you are finding your own way. Finding what works for you is SO important. 🙂

    • This rang so true for me, “perhaps external factors have challenged his control in some way or another. What can happen is that he no longer feels as Dominant and therefore no longer behaves in such a Dominant way; he is less ‘active’ with it perhaps.” Our relationship suffered from this and being so new to this lifestyle I had now idea how to handle it as a sub. I didn’t know where to turn for advice or help. (Most sites I have found seem more about the sexual aspect of the D/s relationship.) So starting this again and seeing other couples that are living this way 24/7 and not just in the bedroom is such a comfort. Thank you for hitting home with me.
      I am struggling with being in a polyamorous relationship. I want my Dom to get what he needs and that means him as a master to a slave. I am not a slave. But I am struggling with jealousy over it at the same time. Do you or anyone have any advice?

      • I think that is a hard one. We are not ployamarous and those who I know who are, don’t feel jealous in that way. Have you spoken to him about it so that he knows how you feel?

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  • Missy commented on the post, Being a middle 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    Yes I agree. Life can be too serious at times and I am definitely guilty of that. Lovely to hear from you 💋

  • Missy commented on the post, Being a middle 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    Thank you gem. I am definitely a work in progress 😊

  • Missy commented on the post, Being a middle 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    Thank you Beth. As you know I have less experience and less confidence with it than you do so that means a lot. missy xx

  • Missy commented on the post, Little Me 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    I love this post Beth. It is so interesting to read more about how being little works for you and MM and I think it will be really helpful to others. I know I struggled to feel like it was a dynamic which fit but you make it clear that there is no right or wrong. Thank you for writing this. missy xx

  • I have lots of friends who identify as being little and are in DD/lg type dynamics. I had always thought that wasn’t me so it came as a shock when I finally realised that actually it was. I think it took me so […]

    • Love the image in the style of the Little Miss books. It’s nice to see the perspective of a middle as the stereotypical little seems to be a “toddler” or “baby”, and littles come in all childlike age ranges. I really enjoyed reading about HL’s caregiver part in your middle dynamic. This is a great post.

      • Thank you Beth. As you know I have less experience and less confidence with it than you do so that means a lot. missy xx

    • Brilliant post, I can relate to the adult life part squashing it! I will definitely read the other posts about middle missy. I like the picture aswell, cute.

    • Ahhh ❤️ We have so enjoyed my Little Flavors … great share, Thank u
      I think most females want to play dress up, embrace shopping, be pleasing. Too many miss out because of lables🙁… Set your-submissive inside FREE.

      • Yes I agree. Life can be too serious at times and I am definitely guilty of that. Lovely to hear from you 💋

    • Yay. I am pleased too. It’s hard to find other middles 😊 let me know when your posts are up x

  • Thank you for this really informative piece. I enjoyed the combination of tips, personal experience and reassurance for those who are thinking about public play. I think that members will find this really helpful 🙂

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