My favorite implement I like Sir to use is Sir’s Heavy flogger or the Dragon tail, Sir’s favorite to use on me  is his hand, his 1/4″  dia. 24″ long Black Delvin cane or his Lollipop. Sir likes me not knowing when or what implement will be in his hand next by blindfolding me and mixing  between thuddy and stingy during a spanking or a play session

Play to me is spontaneous it can be kinky sex or vanilla with a twist. It can last 45 mins or 2 hours nothing your doing is planned.

Scene is where Sir has planned out an agenda on what we will be doing, Sir will have it all written out. It’s very intense and most times include heavy impact, it can last 4 hours or so ( with breaks when…[Read more]

TRUST & PATIENCE I agree with Beth that communication is a major factor in a D/s relationship but Sir and I always communicated throughout our marriage. Our issue was trusting each other to commit and do what we said we would do and not assume and judge before hand. I believe everyone has promised or committed themselves to be trusted to do…[Read more]

Lol! I have to agree with Emily, but the big question is between, Cersei-Domme, John – Dom, Daenerys – Domme or a switch just in the bedroom depending on the man who steals her heart which could be John or Jorah,  which one of those 3 is going to become the Master of the 7 Kingdoms? Jamie is a Dom but a slave to Cersei, Sansa Domme now since s…[Read more]

Sir has a large chest that sits at the bottom of Sir closet, this chest locks up it has 2 compartments and a tray in it. Sir keeps toys in it that we haven’t opened yet or don’t use that often or only use for certain scenes. Sir also has 2 large plastic containers that open up on either side and theses are on wheels and slide under our bed. In 1 c…[Read more]

When we started D/s the first 6 months no one knew about our private lifestyle. But I wear my cuffs 24/7 always, our son,dil and granddaughter moved in for 8 months with us. So during lunch with my son I told him and my sons reply was “Mom I don’t want to know” Lol. But my son is open minded and is very dominant as his father. Than I told my…[Read more]

Love this post Emily! It’s is one of my Sirs fav. also but also mine as well. A zipper can be 1 pin to as many as your Sir wants it to be. When we started Sir used 2 separate  zippers one for each nipple and attached them to my cuffs. Super job Emily with useful info on how to use a zipper. ♥