My first wife passed away in her early 30’s, I’m afraid. We played lots of BDSM games but weren’t part of the community: we both had some experience and were more about having kinky fun than exploring the lifestyle.
My second wife had no BDSM experience but was curious to try: she loved it and I spent 22 wonderful years training my “turtle” (becasue she was helpless on her back) as a Contracted slave. We did chats, munches, dungeon parties, private parties: much more community involvement and a very real M/s relationship. I confess that I very nearly decided to go with her when she passed away in Nov ’17, but didn’t for our daughter’s sake.
To my utter astonishment in the Spring of ’19 I met a much younger girl (36 to my 59) on Twitter. She was inexperienced, curious, and wanted online training which went so well that three times I flew out to spend a week with my “pretty blushes.” She’s alive and well (I’m not always a fatal experience) but we broke up after a year, partly due to COVID-related travel issues.
It’s now the Spring of ’21 and I’ve been alone for a year. At 62 I’m not optimistic about finding a new sub to Master or Mentor but who knows? I didn’t expect to find pretty, either.
UPDATE: Okay, I am officially surprised (and very pleased) to say that I am now the Master of CruelsSexPuppet. It appears that wonders never cease, or at least wonderful women never do.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
80% Primal (Hunter)
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
|Where did you hear about us?|
Yahoo search for bdsm online chat groups
|Where in the World?|
LA, CA, USA