To be sure we’re on the same page, to me “orgasm control” means making her temporarily hold back from climax during play, and “orgasm denial” means making her go without for a significant period of time.
“Control” is great fun (for me). She is being fucked or vibed and begging very sincerely to be allowed to climax and permission is withheld,…[Read more]
She can exert all sorts of control over you in erotic but not blatently sexual ways. For example:
You’re not allowed to dress without her permission.
She chooses your clothes, or at least your underwear.
You need her permission to use the bathroom.
You must ask permission before touching her.
At night you kneel by the bed…[Read more]
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I’d say your first goal is to find out what each of you like and don’t like, what does and does not work for each of you. Listen to chats where people are talking about what they do, read forums and blogs about experiences and reflections on them. Some stuff will make you perk up with interest, some stuff will make you wonder if people are…[Read more]
Things can always get worse, right? Especially if you’re tied up and naked.
The point of this game is to make it worse, to make the bondage stricter or the position more difficult. We take turns going up to the girl tied arms overhead in the dungeon and adding something (a gag, maybe?) or upgrading something (replace the buttplug someone already…[Read more]
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