MyPuppet and I are in a long distance relationship and the various whips I own aren’t really suitable for self-use. Also, I didn’t want a painful whip for Puppet, I wanted a stimulating whip: one she could use (especially on breasts and pussy) to arouse herself, to give herself a warm glow not a hot burn. I wanted a “foreplay whip” that would…[Read more]

Hello and welcome, matty. It’s s very open community here and I hope you make lots of friends as well as finding what you came for.

CruelPuppetMaster

Hello, and welcome, amber.

May I suggest seeing if your husband will join the site?

PuppetMaster

Hello, and welcome!

Several couples here were together for years before developing an interest in D/s, I’m sure you’ll find the blogs and chats very informative.

CPM

This is a great topic: thank you for starting it. Many folks here are (ahem!) mature, including myself (62 in July). I don’t really feel that Puppet’s and my BDSM play is diminished by the physical restrictions we both have: it may be physically milder in some ways but the mental/emotional/sexual aspects are 100%

Easing up on the physical stuff…[Read more]

“And we act out the role including me being age 12.”

The key point is “act out a role.” You’re not really a child: it’s just a role. A fun, exciting, daring, kinky, forbidden, sweetly affectionate role, but it’s not real. Well, except for the sweetly affectionate part, lol.

I’m not really a school principal who wants a non-consenting teen, I…[Read more]

Congratulations on going from Lurker to Poster, Kate! I’m not sure where on the menu it is but there is a posting board here called The Subs Space which (you guessed it) is for subs only. You should check it out and also come to the live chats. Look under the “Events” tab for the schedule.

Hello, Rick,

This will be a great place for you: lots of folks talking about and writing about their experiences with all sorts of BDSM dynamics. Browse the blogs and forums for subjects that catch your eye and especially come to the live chats. Look under the “Events” tab for the schedule.

Welcome!

She lies on her back on floor or bed under a ceiling hook. The crotchrope runs up and over the hook and back down to her ankles holding them a foot or so up in the air. There’s no pressure on the crotchrope as long as she can hold her legs up, but how long is that?

CPM

I don’t think you will find anyone here who will call it “strange” for a sub to be turned on by being dominated and controlled. Being exposed to his family is certainly unusual, but I don’t see anything to criticize unless it violated a hard limit that had been previously agreed to: you don’t seem to have been upset by it(?).

“felt weird but…[Read more]