I’m a male Dom with 43 years experience living in the Los Angeles area. More details on my profile:
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I’d say your first goal is to find out what each of you like and don’t like, what does and does not work for each of you. Listen to chats where people are talking about what they do, read forums and blogs about experiences and reflections on them. Some stuff will make you perk up with interest, some stuff will make you wonder if people are…[Read more]
Things can always get worse, right? Especially if you’re tied up and naked.
The point of this game is to make it worse, to make the bondage stricter or the position more difficult. We take turns going up to the girl tied arms overhead in the dungeon and add something (a gag, maybe?) or upgrade something (replace the buttplug someone already put…[Read more]
Try many small but daily or regularly occurring things that get him involved and have him exercising control over you:
He decides what you wear to bed. Every night you ask what he would like you in, or just appear in something sexy and ask permission to wear that.
Tell him you’re grateful that he allows you panties, and prove it by sending him…[Read more]
Beth is right about discussing the issue, of course, but that should have come first. If we were already in a scene and it was a legitimate order under our Contract then I would turn you around and give it to you in the ass instead. Not gently.
Would that work or shall I say what would happen if you refused again next time?
I prefer long, drawn out torments to the more intense tortures. I’ll be happy to give you a blistering spanking, but I’d enjoy even more watching you sitting on spikes and squirming.
Of course, that’s one of those situations where “Both is best.”
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