I’m glad things are back on track for you two. Mister Man and I feel that respectful, honest communication is key to our happy marriage. I’m glad you and your Sir were able to talk about it and resolve things.
The Safewords Club was created so D/s folks could chat, find other D/s friends, and get support when needed. Feel free to ask que…[Read more]
Sorry I didn’t see this sooner. And don’t worry about the long post , it’s great you are getting your thought and feelings written down.
I’m glad the D/s is helping with your anxiety. I’ve noticed mine has lessened with my husband taking a stronger lead.
Yes, you made a mistake, but we all do, it’s a human thing to do. I do the same thing…[Read more]
For those in the US buying the book from Douglas Kent’s website is significantly less expensive than Amazon, plus he sells rope for bondage and some shibari and hojojitsu books as well.
We have a collar changing ritual. I have a day collar, and a night collar that I sleep in. I kneel before MM and ask to serve him, then he changes my collar to fit the time of day. It helps to reinforce our roles. It reminds us of my service to him and his protection and guidance of me.
Hi Jilly, welcome.
I love my collars. It’s a physical reminder of my Sir’s love and support, which helps ease my anxious moments. I can’t/don’t separate the symbolism that it represents from the object itself. If I did, I would think it’s a pretty choker that he made for me, but it’s so much more because of what it represents. Like my wedding rin…[Read more]
Babybrat, it’s nice to meet you. Welcome to SWC.
It sounds like you still have trust issues, with very good reason. Trust is something that can only come with time and lots of communication. Only you can say if you are ready to try again. You and your friend could start slowly with small things. Let him know if and when you are uncomfortable in a…[Read more]
Beth [MM] replied to the topic I feel I should receive a bigger punishment and my Master doesn’t. in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 2 years, 8 months ago
Sorry no one has replied to you yet. I think this is something you should discuss with your Master. Let him know your feelings. Do you feel you need more of a punishment to make up for what you’ve done? If you are still feeling badly about your transgression I think it needs to be discussed with him. He has the final say in your punishments but I…[Read more]
Conquer Me: Girl-To-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires and the The Conquer Me Companion guide put together by Luna Carruthers (lunaKM from Submissive Guide)
Luna also did a book club series on the submissive guide website
The Conquer Me Compantion
Conquer Me book club week 1
pages xi,1-56; Forward to Second Inter…[Read more]
Hi Lynette, nice to meet you! We have regular chats here, dates and times are posted on the events calendar. If you want to meet people in person FetLife.com has munch info listed on their site and links to other munch resources. Munches are informal get togethers usually at a restaurant or bar for kinky people to meet others in a safe way and get…[Read more]
Nice to meet you.
We are all multifaceted so I don’t think being a sub and a kitty and a middle is too much, lots of fun areas for you to explore.
It really depends on your friend’s views. If she’s pretty open to stuff you’d probably be okay. If you’re not sure, it might be best to feel the topic out slowly. You would kno…[Read more]
Welcome to SWC!
That sounds like a pretty miserable night. And it sounds like your Daddy is a pretty understanding guy. I’m sure a very sincere apology from you would go a long way. I think it would be best for the two of you to discuss this incident together. Maybe work through why you may have behaved so badly and find a way to p…[Read more]
Hi Precious, and welcome.
Some have contracts and some don’t. It’s really what appeals to you as a couple. If you like things listed in detail then you might like having a contract. It can also serve as a reminder for the things you agree to, limits, etc. The checklists can be nice because you can compare areas of interest and see how your limi…[Read more]
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