Beth [MM]

That’s what’s great about this dynamic you can try on roles to see if they fit, keep what does and leave the rest. Mr Man says the three C’s of D/s are communication, communication and more communication, lol. It’s awesome that you were able to open up to Serenity and now you can both get your needs met. Thank you for sharing.

It really dependents on the preferences of those involved in the relationship. I think many here started in the bedroom and have broadened it to encompass some, most, or all of their relationship. But if it’s only desired in the bedroom it doesn’t need to go beyond that. There is no right way, just whatever works for those involved.

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Welcome! If you can, come to the chats, see the events calendar for the days and times. We would be happy to answer any questions you might have in chat or here in the forum. No ones D/s looks like anyone else’s, each person/relationship needs to make it their own. I suggest you do a lot of research, we have a lot of information in the resources f…[Read more]

It’s awesome that you found a way that would work for you.

I was married to him before we became D/s. Maybe try a munch in your local community? Or simply dating and find someone with similar interest? Good luck.

Have you spoken with your current Dom about your feelings, and your desire for a more evolving D/s relationship?

Yes, some of us practice Domestic Discipline.

I agree with Eliza, as  you don’t know him keep your rings. You are not a bad sub for protecting yourself, you would actually be  a good one. You can tell him that’s a hard limit for you, and he should respect that. If he gets angry or upset at you keeping your rings he’s not a good master, he’s more likely a con artist. If you decided to persue…[Read more]

I am very submissive. Years ago my husband tried to get me to take control in the bedroom so I could get my needs met and it was very difficult for me. Since we’ve started D/s he’s ordered me to pleasure him with my body, to show myself off. Basically take control but at his command. It really helped my mindset.

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Hi Secretsensations, welcome.

I’m glad you are no longer in that abusive relationship. “Will a D/s relationship bring back all those terrified abused feelings…?” It might, but it might not. It really depends on your new relationship, how you react to things now, and also how your new dom treats you. A good dom will respect your limits and y…[Read more]

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Our communication has been enhanced. The sex is awesome. We both feel freer to embrace our chosen roles. He gets to be in charge and I don’t have to be; if he wants to delegate he can then I work under his direction.