Captain's Girl started the topic Forum layout in the forum SUGGESTION BOX 2 months, 2 weeks ago
I suggest having the posts with the newest activity moved to the top of the page rather than the bottom.
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Help with punishment idea for me in the forum BONDAGE & DISCIPLINE 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Have you considered orgasm denial? You denied his order, so he denies your pleasure.
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Adra are now friends 3 months ago
Captain's Girl replied to the topic submissive top in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Service top. Thanks for that one. New lingo! Went and looked it up. I think most daddy doms would fall into that category to some extent as well. Just remember, S,S&C. beyond that, there is no right and wrong. Just what works for you and what doesn’t.
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Bdsm test? in the forum DOM, SUB, or SWITCH ……? 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Thanks for the input. Also, said i was a masochist. I disagree with those findings. I dont love the pain, i love the marks and am willing to endure the pain required to get them.
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Just a newbie in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 5 months, 3 weeks ago
Welcome. I don’t know where you are in the world, but please try to come to the live chats! All questions are welcome
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Need help, and ideas! in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 5 months, 3 weeks ago
Video chat. Give her tasks, have her masturbate with you giving instructions for example. Poor behavior can result in not allowing orgasms, or her having to do something she finds unpleasant. Rewards could be orgasams, a new toy, more time with you. The possibilities are only limited by your tame and budget.
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Captain's Girl replied to the topic My Dom is my best friend in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 7 months, 1 week ago
Ok, being 2 years and 4 months old… I have no advice to offer. But the question at the end got my attention. Can Doms groom their sub? The term groom in this context for me is somewhat predatory, as in an abuser grooms the victim. Within the tenants of SSC, I’d say no. Because to do so would be manipulative at best, and abusive at worst… and…[Read more]
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Bdsm test? in the forum DOM, SUB, or SWITCH ……? 7 months, 2 weeks ago
I also found it to be mostly accurate. The only thing I felt it was off about was the masochistic rating. I think it was too high. I’m nowhere near a pain slut, beyond a little sting it’s not necessarily enjoyable for me…. however, I love the marks and those don’t come from an erotic spanking. I’m willing to suck it up to get the marks, and the…[Read more]
Captain's Girl replied to the topic New sub – need guidance in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 7 months, 3 weeks ago
For some reason i didnt see this thread. Almost 6 months later, its probably to late to advise anything. However, communication is never wrong. And the right time and place is anytime and anywhere. Im curious about how this worked out for you, if you are comfortable sharing.
Captain's Girl commented on the post, Discipline 8 months ago
HL, Thank you for this. I as a sub agree with you 100% in regard to the correlation between BDSM and the military (and even gangs). Simply put, when you choose the behavior, you choose the consequence. You meet or exceed the standards set for you and you get the things you want. If you fail, you are punished. Knowing that, provides emotional and…[Read more]
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Rough play debate in the forum PLAY, SCENES & TRAINING 8 months ago
SSC. Partners need to follow that guide, bdsm or vanilla, makes no difference. Communication matters. As women generally we suck at it in regard to sex. And if someone does something you dont like, and you dont communicate that, when he does it to the next girl… you share responsibility for it. Sorry for the late response. And of course this…[Read more]
Captain's Girl started the topic Bdsm test? in the forum DOM, SUB, or SWITCH ……? 8 months ago
Ok, so my Dom saw a tiktok that said hold out 5 fingers, then fold 2 down. So depending on which fingers you folded down would let you know if you are a Dom, sub, or switch. He got Dom, I got switch. Im not willing to put much stock into something that basic (but in general personality, i actually agree)… but it made me wonder if there was a…[Read more]
Captain's Girl replied to the topic Introductions and Advice in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 9 months, 2 weeks ago
Fantasies need to be shared with your partner. My Doms preference is that I write them down. So you might want to consider that option.
As for keeping things seperate… I’m sure it can be done but we (my Dom/Husband and myself) have not done that successfully. We run a family business together and in all parts of that we are equal. At home we…[Read more]
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Book Group 10 months, 1 week ago
Question, I’ve read several novels that have D/s schools. Are these real?
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Captain's Girl replied to the topic Newbie in the forum DOMINATION & SUBMISSION 10 months, 1 week ago
Ok. I am zero help to you. My experience in D/s is only with my husband, and we had been together for 15+ years before we decided to get into the lifestyle. Maybe some of the people who have been here longer will have some suggestions.
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