Thank you all for the input and info. The responses have provided a lot of insight.

Thank you for this. The clarification makes 100% sense to me.  And coincidentally relates to what triggered the original question.

We have not done much of this. However, somewhat along the same line of thread (pun intended). He will place me in rope bondage, usually feet or legs so that I don’t have the ability to walk. And the he will leave me there helpless. Sometimes he even leaves the house. When he leaves the house he will always leave my hands free so that I can…[Read more]

Ok, so let me be basic af… but I love any time he goes caveman on me. Anything where he is physically agressive or demanding in a sexual way. I mean sweet movie sex where a man is gently removing your clothes and slowly exploring your body is nice sometimes. But it’s a completely different experience when he pins you to the wall and rips your…[Read more]

Have you considered orgasm denial? You denied his order, so he denies your pleasure.

Service top. Thanks for that one. New lingo! Went and looked it up. I think most daddy doms would fall into that category to some extent as well. Just remember, S,S&C. beyond that, there is no right and wrong. Just what works for you and what doesn’t.

Thanks for the input. Also, said i was a masochist. I disagree with those findings. I dont love the pain, i love the marks and am willing to endure the pain required to get them.

Welcome. I don’t know where you are in the world, but please try to come to the live chats! All questions are welcome

Video chat. Give her tasks, have her masturbate with you giving instructions for example. Poor behavior can result in not allowing orgasms, or her having to do something she finds unpleasant. Rewards could be orgasams, a new toy, more time with you. The possibilities are only limited by your tame and budget.

Ok, being 2 years and 4 months old… I have no advice to offer. But the question at the end got my attention. Can Doms groom their sub? The term groom in this context for me is somewhat predatory, as in an abuser grooms the victim. Within the tenants of SSC, I’d say no. Because to do so would be manipulative at best, and abusive at worst… and…[Read more]

I also found it to be mostly accurate. The only thing I felt it was off about was the masochistic rating. I think it was too high. I’m nowhere near a pain slut, beyond a little sting it’s not necessarily enjoyable for me…. however, I love the marks and those don’t come from an erotic spanking. I’m willing to suck it up to get the marks, and the…[Read more]

For some reason i didnt see this thread. Almost 6 months later, its probably to late to advise anything. However, communication is never wrong. And the right time and place is anytime and anywhere. Im curious about how this worked out for you, if you are comfortable sharing.