Ever since I can remember I have been a feminist. As a child, I refused to play with Barbie dolls, saying they looked ridiculous. In High School I was the sort of girl that tore down FHM centrefolds from the […]
great post. I love reading about others journey into D/s. 🙂
Great post Huntress 😊😊
I think you will find there are very many of us subs who are strong women, with feminist views as it relates to life, work and ourselves … and yes, the key being we are submissive because we choose to be. For me … when I held down a stressful, high level job in a male dominated industry, it was good to be able to hand the strength and control I needed to maintain during the work day, to my man when when we were just us, in the bedroom … thanks for sharing your views, Huntress … happy for you that you found your way to a dynamic that works for you both … and here to the SWC … nj
Excellent insight into your beginnings, I’m glad you’ve found so many positives.
This post is very true for many Subs, however; I have learned it is not only a female or Sub, that may have these “views”, of a feminist in ways. My Dom for instance, was raised by a mother and father with the values and morals which in return, he was taught, “how to treat a woman”, Lead by example which is hindering a lot of our lifestyle. I am a 24/7/365 Sub, to where he has never been a Dom or Daddy prior. Trying to reassure or bring out the Dom, with the support and communication that, this lifestyle is actually the “way” to treat a woman, with respect ,love and discipline , is more bonding then a vanilla relationship. I have explained to him the hands that hold me are the same hand that discipline me but in the end these are the same hands that love me. It’s very difficult to convert one’s concept of how “women should be treated”, when all women are different.
If you’re going out for dinner, I have a few things I can suggest, some sexual and some more mental.
Regarding purely sexual: Tell her to masturbate in the car on the way to the venue, put a small toy in the glove compartment to show it was planned for (Hunter does this, always fills me with anticipation). Have her wear a remote-control v…[Read more]