HisLordship

I would say the best way to approach this is to let your D/s take a natural path.  Trying to fit your dynamic into the shape  of others, or what general writting says you should be only adds pressure.  If your D/s is currently in the bedroom and it works, stay there. If one day it spills over and becomes something else, stop and evaluate what is…[Read more]

Thanks for a great post and the thumbs-up!  So pleased this are going your way and that you have both found you own corner of kink.

Very interesting reading everyone’s best bits about D/s!  One of the many positives of D/s is that so many practictioners want to talk about it with such enthusiasm.  It is the best kept secret because many of us cannot tell people we know of the benefits as it would have them running for the hills!  On the up side, when we do engage with other pe…[Read more]

From a Dominant’s perspective I can see how a submissive would feel less submissive by being asked to have some control, either by face fucking or even riding on top during penerative sex.  Beth touches on communication in her response to this post and she is right. If a Dom commands that the sub goes on top, or taken to the extreme,  is fucked a…[Read more]

Hi Vivien,

We would love hear from you in our chat rooms.  Please come along to one of our open chats (see calendar).

Hello Cortado, welcome to the SWC!

Firstly, your use of English is excellent and very easy to understand so don’t worry about that!

I try to avoid giving advice as this makes me appear to have mastered D/s relationships, and that couldn’t be further from the truth!  I do see where you currently are in your relationship and that I am sure this…[Read more]