Emma, f, sub

WELL???? Did the new pants fit, or not!

Don’t leave us in suspense like that!

Welcome to the site Evelyn.  Hope you can join us in the chats one of these days.  The US centered chat happens on Fridays at 9pm your time.  There is a chat even if there isn’t anything on the calendar (which has been glitchy lately).  The UK centered chats are on Sundays and Tuesday at 3pm your time.

We have a private group for submissives cal…[Read more]

That was wonderful, Eden! Very erotic, very real, showing your mind as well as your actions.

“I smile broadly. I feel victorious, both used for his pleasure and utterly satisfied.”

Vanilla women who don’t understand submission can’t conceive of how it could ever leave you felling empowered and victorious. I try to explain with the analogy tha…[Read more]

Hey Sparkle, welcome to the site!  Feel free to ask questions, we will do our best to answer them.

We have weekly chats as well that you can join and ask questions at.  They are listed under the events tab.  The UK chats are on Sundays and Tuesdays, but lots of US folks attend as well.  We love having new people attend the chats so feel free to…[Read more]

Count on it, Vix!

As the others mentioned, chat apparently doesn’t like Chrome.  It wouldn’t work on my phone either.  I use Firefox on both platforms now and it works fine.

Keep trying!  We will be glad to see  you!

MPL

Welcome to the forum Kenslave…  As to your question, D/s is all about honesty.  There isn’t really another way to do it other than to sit him down and honestly tell him your feelings.  My wife was the instigator of our D/s, because she had the courage to confess that she wanted to try this dynamic.  I had no idea she wanted it and it wasn’t on…[Read more]

Welcome Tsunade and Snicksnee!  So glad you found your way here.  Your story is fascinating and I am glad to hear you made it back to D/s in your own way!  You will find that no one here will try to sell you on the “one true way” of D/s.  We are all about finding what works for each dynamic.  I hope you will join us for our chats, which you can…[Read more]

Eva,

Welcome to the site!  We are happy to have you (and Mister Walls) join us.  For chats, check the events page for times/topics.  Tues/Sundays are the UK chats which end up being in the afternoon for us here in the US, and we have a US evening chat on Fridays.  We meet in the Main Lounge and then transition to another room for the topic cha…[Read more]

Welcome to the site kitten.  If you are looking for married D/s, you have come to the right place.  If you are interested, we have scheduled chats that are listed in the events calendar.  Generally, the UK hosted chats (afternoons for those here in the US) are Tuesdays and Sundays.  We host a North American chat on Friday evenings.  We meet in t…[Read more]

We have chat’s on Friday nights at 9pm EST, so it will be pretty early in the morning for you I’m afraid (4am)…  If you can’t sleep or are an early riser you are more than welcome to join us.  The UK chats are on Sundays and Tuesdays at 8pm GMT, so you could probably make those.  Many of the US folks joins as well since it is in the afternoon fo…[Read more]

Welcome to the site ElleMay.  As Windy mentioned this site caters to married D/s, so you have come to the right place!  My wife and I have been together for 22 years, but only D/s for the last 2 or so.  Hopefully the timing will work out so you can make it to either the US or the UK chats.  We would love to have you there!  If you have any ques…[Read more]

Very hot stuff!

This has been around for awhile and we’ve been using it for over a year.  It works well for our dynamic and I know a few others on here that use it for LDR as well.  Others find they don’t like checklists.  YMMV, but we are pretty happy with it.

Rudolph and Santa look a bit shocked…..

I look a bit awestruck: it’s terrific!

Look for a tree with a nice, sturdy branch for tying your arms overhead!