Very glad to see an honest post on it. I initially posted this question on the forum as we are just starting out to expand beyond the home environment…and there is not much written about it.
Our practice is similar to Curvey^^ ‘s ..we rely on protocols but only use them when just the two of us go out. We are still a bit cautious to use it on…[Read more]
Anybody wants to share discreet ways of showing submission in public?
I am considering asking her to ask for permission using: “May I..?” for everything she does when we go out next….
I am also considering asking her to spread her legs every time she is sitting down…
Any thoughts? I am after subtle but effective ways of…[Read more]
- I would try to be open and honest with him. Make your feelings known to him. Explain how important it is for you.
- Educate him. Explain what D/S relationship is. Give him material to read. Submissy has a wonderful blog.
- Small steps. You have already done one, you calling him Sir. But, it might be feel to him totally alien. Perhaps…
Why don’t you try to implement a simple rule? We started out slowly…now we try to keep it quite simple by adding twists. Recently, we are exploring twists outside the bedroom..because. after 3 years, I deemed she made enough progress in the bedroom.
There is an interesting post on here about…[Read more]
I think rules are important in D/S relationship and, in my view, rules need to be simple and applied consistently. Furthermore, if you are in a committed relationship in a busy household (i.e. children, both working full time), in my experience there is not much mental space for many rules. We only have a handful of rules.
Some rules, however,…[Read more]