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DW4Sir commented on the post, Discreetly showing a D/s-relationship in public 1 year, 9 months ago
Very glad to see an honest post on it. I initially posted this question on the forum as we are just starting out to expand beyond the home environment…and there is not much written about it.
Our practice is similar to Curvey^^ ‘s ..we rely on protocols but only use them when just the two of us go out. We are still a bit cautious to use it on…[Read more]
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Discreet ways of showing submission in public in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 1 year, 10 months ago
I shall clarify …that I am mainly interested in ways of showing submission in public..for nights out…as a couple or with friends.
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DW4Sir started the topic Discreet ways of showing submission in public in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 1 year, 10 months ago
Any ideas?
Anybody wants to share discreet ways of showing submission in public?
I am considering asking her to ask for permission using: “May I..?” for everything she does when we go out next….
I am also considering asking her to spread her legs every time she is sitting down…
Any thoughts? I am after subtle but effective ways of…[Read more]
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Struggling sub in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 1 year, 10 months ago
Difficult one.
- I would try to be open and honest with him. Make your feelings known to him. Explain how important it is for you.
- Educate him. Explain what D/S relationship is. Give him material to read. Submissy has a wonderful blog.
- Small steps. You have already done one, you calling him Sir. But, it might be feel to him totally alien. Perhaps…
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Best simple rule? in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 5 months ago
Why don’t you try to implement a simple rule? We started out slowly…now we try to keep it quite simple by adding twists. Recently, we are exploring twists outside the bedroom..because. after 3 years, I deemed she made enough progress in the bedroom.
There is an interesting post on here about…[Read more]
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Best simple rule? in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 5 months ago
I like the explicitness of rules.
It is a way of asserting authority. It also means that if they are broken, there are consequences.
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Best simple rule? in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 5 months ago
Apologies, I did not express myself correctly. I meant to say: turn down the bed linen of the bed as in the turndown hotel service.
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DW4Sir started the topic Best simple rule? in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 2 years, 5 months ago
I think rules are important in D/S relationship and, in my view, rules need to be simple and applied consistently. Furthermore, if you are in a committed relationship in a busy household (i.e. children, both working full time), in my experience there is not much mental space for many rules. We only have a handful of rules.
Some rules, however,…[Read more]
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DW4Sir replied to the topic Suggestions for Dom discussions in the forum SUGGESTION BOX 2 years, 9 months ago
How do you know that a Dom is being dominated?
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