• Miss Inara started the topic Miss Inara says hi! in the forum INTRODUCTIONS 4 months ago

    Hi all,

    I’ve just popped in to introduce myself! I’m happily married, have a full-time very busy career, live in the UK, child free by choice, in my 30’s living with my husband. We have been exploring bedroom only D/s for quite some time now and are very happy with this dynamic sexually, but have been talking at considerable length about a D/s lifestyle and how that would work for a little while.

    On one of my internet research sessions, I luckily found Submissy’s blog that made it really obvious that everyone can make it work for themselves if we want to. It was in contrast to so much other literature I had read on the subject and made me feel so contented to know that we were not the only people discussing such a possibility. Having read an awful lot of her blog I have eventually decided to join this forum, in order to get to talk to other like-minded people!

    My husband and I have worked out a list of quite reflective questions we both want to answer for ourselves will be sitting down to discuss how we aim to make this work this weekend, so we are just embarking on our lifestyle journey as I type.

    I’ve never talked to anyone apart from my husband about either our bedroom D/s or our interest in a lifestyle, so this is very new to me and I’m a little nervous but very excited too!

    A) Thank you to Missy for writing so much about it all and making it feel so possible!

    B) I look forward to chatting with lots of you in the future!

    Miss Inara x



    • Hello and welcome to SWC. I am so happy to have you join the site and our community. There are scheduled chats that you can find on the Events page. Hope to meet you soon…VL