Hi Guys, just a reminder that this thread is group activity so you can leave comments here etc but information about books, suggestions, details of the next book etc should be posted in the forum as it is easier to keep track of due to the topics and replies. Here it is activity so it will move much faster and what you have written can be missed.…[Read more]
I’m sure those of you with some experience will know there are more than 5 things to consider about mind fucks, however, we have selected 5 just to get you going!
A Mind Fuck is not a malicious act to cause […]
Establishing a D/s dynamic
It can be quite overwhelming when you start out to add D/s to an existing relationship. I know that when we started we were searching for the right way to do things. Of course, we […]
i could not agree more – this can not be said often enough
Thanks Iris xx
Hi Windy. I am glad that you are finding a home here and am pleased that we will be able to learn more from you about what it is you do and how you make it work for you. There is always so much to gain from finding out about how others do things. Personally I don’t much care for labels as, no sooner than I have found one, than it seems to end up making squeezing me into a box that doesn’t quite work. I know they can be helpful for finding resources and connecting with others etc so I do use them but try to keep an open mind. I can honestly say that I have done and felt things on this journey I never would have believed so to me, anything seems possible now lol. Good to have you both on board. Missy x
In one of the early blog posts on submissy I wrote about the fact that HisLordship asked me to practice 9 positions of submission. What we did was to use one a week and I would get myself into position each ev […]
What are the basic things to know about fisting?
Apply common sense
I would say apply common sense, however, that is a sliding scale for most people! Let’s get one thing out the way before we start, f […]
Although in some corners of our still very vanilla world lube might be viewed as a shameful product, bought by people who are past their sell by date, thanks to the growth of the porn industry, this underrated […]
What is Layering Communication
Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with you, but this is not something that seems to be […]
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