MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 1 week, 4 days ago
You’re welcome TGS. 😊
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Thank you CSP. Thank you for holding our hands on this journey !
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Thank you, Marie. 😊
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Sorry I had not seen this earlier Missy and replied. We have had a rough school term and just been through another of these moments, hopefully our last. It is nice of you to think that the post may be helpful for some, I hope it is.
Thank you and HL for creating such a great space for us to be a part of.Aussie Girl ❤️
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 weeks, 3 days ago
So sorry I had not seen this earlier and replied. We have had a rough school term and just been through another of these moments, hopefully our last. My Sir and I seem to have really turned the corner this time.
The D/s journey is well worth it, but may take a while to settle. It can be “confusing, difficult and frustrating” at times, esp…[Read more] -
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MrC’s AussieGirl replied to the topic Calling all Middles in the forum DD/lg (and other Big/little dynamics) 3 months, 1 week ago
I don’t know about a middle, but we have been calling my other persona Big Girl. It has been manifesting itself more and more the last couple of months as I request more cuddle time, and find I am needing that each day and miss it if I don’t have it. As CSP said I love curling up in My Sir’s lap or next to him (and can’t wait to go home at Christm…[Read more]
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Hi CPM,
Lol I wish ! 😉😉 but thank you very much for the compliment Sir. We have always believed that in taking you should endeavor to give back.
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MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Hi Mike,
Thanks for commenting. There seems to be more and more of our age group joining each week. I’m glad you enjoyed the read, and yes we need to make every minute of our life together count.
😊 Aussie Girl
Ps love your pic, we worked the last six years on remote cattle stations in Outback Queensland. My Sir did a bit of mustering, p…[Read more] -
MrC’s AussieGirl commented on the post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank you Naughty Nora for taking the time to comment. D/s is definitely a challenging transition in a LTM. I’m glad it brings harmony to your marriage, and Yes the sex is So much better.
Quite a few Doms have commented on the difficulties reconciling D/s with society’s moral expectations, and their love and care for their wiv…[Read more] -
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MrC’s AussieGirl wrote a new post, Beginning D/s and finding support 3 months, 2 weeks ago
It is not unusual to have people say it must be easier beginning D/s within a long term marriage. I believe that may be true for some but not all. The day I suggested D/s to my husband I’m sure he was s […]
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MrC’s AussieGirl replied to the topic submission and aging in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 3 months, 3 weeks ago
You’re welcome LMT ! 😊
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MrC’s AussieGirl replied to the topic Shibari rope technique in the forum BONDAGE & DISCIPLINE 3 months, 4 weeks ago
This looks great Hana ! Lucky you, I can no longer do that with my legs.
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MrC’s AussieGirl replied to the topic Shibari rope technique in the forum BONDAGE & DISCIPLINE 3 months, 4 weeks ago
One of My Sir’s new practice ties. He has since extended it to the front, hips and crotch but I cannot share the photos as I was nude. -
MrC’s AussieGirl replied to the topic submission and aging in the forum DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION 4 months ago
Lol CPM has ‘ nailed it.’ A lot of the D/s is a mind game.
I am also an alpha at work, outside the home and the matriarch in our family so the submission is well earned and prized by My Sir.
At times when bondage is not possible My Sir often uses a verbal command to keep me in place or held back rather than physical bondage. This requires eve…[Read more] -
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One of My Sir’s new practice ties. He has since extended it to the front, hips and crotch but I cannot share the photos as I was nude.
I throughly enjoyed reading your blog, we are also in our late 50’s who found BDSM later in our marriage and we can relate. I wish y’all all the success in the world and enjoy and have fun, just like I say to Sub Elizabeth it is our last hooray and let’s make the most of it.
Hi Mike,
Thanks for commenting. There seems to be more and more of our age group joining each week. I’m glad you enjoyed the read, and yes we need to make every minute of our life together count.
😊 Aussie Girl
Ps love your pic, we worked the last six years on remote cattle stations in Outback Queensland. My Sir did a bit of mustering, processing and bore running.
Thank you Naughty Nora for taking the time to comment. D/s is definitely a challenging transition in a LTM. I’m glad it brings harmony to your marriage, and Yes the sex is So much better.
Quite a few Doms have commented on the difficulties reconciling D/s with society’s moral expectations, and their love and care for their wives/submissives. The SWC chats are helping My Sir to change his thinking.
😊Aussie Girl
Hi CPM,
Lol I wish ! 😉😉 but thank you very much for the compliment Sir. We have always believed that in taking you should endeavor to give back.
😊 Aussie Girl
This is such a lovely read, the way you have approached this, and worked through those difficult months. Beautiful.
~ Marie
Thank you, Marie. 😊
Love reading this story♥️ thanks so much for sharing with us ♥️
You’re welcome TGS. 😊
I love this post AG. I think you are right that we focus so much on the great bits and people don’t tell you about the times that you doubt yourself and feel you are stuck. I always like to say that nothing this good comes without hard work because I do feel like I am living a fairytale in some senses but the high highs do come with some low lows too. I feel like I just feel so much more of everything in this dynamic – like it is all dialled up. I think this post will be really helpful to others starting out too. Thank you for posting it and for being such an active part of this community. Missy x
Sorry I had not seen this earlier Missy and replied. We have had a rough school term and just been through another of these moments, hopefully our last. It is nice of you to think that the post may be helpful for some, I hope it is.
Thank you and HL for creating such a great space for us to be a part of.
Aussie Girl ❤️
Loved reading about your journey ag. Thank you for sharing your experience. I know that when we share, we help others who are going through the same things and don’t know where to ask for help. I’m so glad you and MrC found Safewords.
Hugs.
Thank you CSP. Thank you for holding our hands on this journey !
So sorry I had not seen this earlier and replied. We have had a rough school term and just been through another of these moments, hopefully our last. My Sir and I seem to have really turned the corner this time.
The D/s journey is well worth it, but may take a while to settle. It can be “confusing, difficult and frustrating” at times, especially when adding to a long term relationship. In our case 40 years. Though we have always had a loving, trusting marriage, D/s takes trust to a whole new level, especially if you are turning the tables on your relationship. I was so happy MamaGrimm to hear in chat that you are both moving forward.
Wishing you all the best.
Aussie Girl 😊