Hi Trouble. Your experience is very similar to ours. D/s headspace in a married 24/7 relationship is challenging. I struggled badly in the beginning. Be patient. Talk openly. He needs to process the emotions and conflicts in his attic. I have always been protective and giving in a Dom sense. I needed to give My Girl what she needed not wh…[Read more]
We are fairly new to the D/s dynamic as well, having last year asked My Sir/hubby to consider a 24/7 D/s relationship, including a focus on health and safety, after 38 years together. We have found though that many little habits we have had over the years lean to a D/s dynamic anyway.
Last year was the hardest year, especially for My Sir. Your…[Read more]
We are not too much into rituals and rules as his job is high pressure and when he gets home he does not want any sort of structure like that; he is still very much a dom. But 37 years together the whole rules thing just did not work. I said that to say this, one ritual that organically evolved is that we put our foreheads and noses together an…[Read more]
I thought it was just me. This is looking like a great place to have found. Our play can get intense like that. One of our all time favorite games is chase. Our backyard is big and private (so I will be half naked or wearing some sheer thing with easy access to his favorite parts of me. I get a head start and he has to catch me. I am smal…[Read more]
MyPetsLord and I have been married for almost 21 years now, though we only started a formal 24/7 D/s dynamic last September. This group has been an awesome source of support as we have been finding our way. This whole adventure has been more challenging due to still having two teenagers at home and almost a full year of constant togetherness, but…[Read more]
Thank you to both you and His Lordship for welcoming Mr C and and I, and for creating such a great site. It was wonderful to find somewhere that is much more down to earth, and that we can relate to both at our stage of our D/s journey and in life. I know it takes a lot of personal time and effort to manage sites like this, so thanks…[Read more]
Hi Aussie Girl,
It was lovely to meet you and chat today. I hope that you find it helpful here in terms of learning. And I am so glad that you took the plunge and asked for a D/s lifestyle dynamic. How exciting.
Lovely to meet you. I hope that you will find some people who you can relate to here and who will share their own experience as that is a great way to learn. Please just shout if you have any questions.
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