My daddy says the same. He is a “nice guy” too  and couldn’t imagine being any other kind of dom because he wants to nurture me and see me grow through my submission to him.

Im a babgirl but not a little.  It distinguishes me from being a slave, or service sub, and affirms my dom as head of household and provider and protector. It means i get spanked for punishment but never humiliated, belittled or berated because those make my babygirl self cry and feel sad instead if submissive and contrite (and they are not kinky…[Read more]

Thanks you all so far for sharing with me. Rules and rituals are so personal and i am enjoying bring your experiences of them to daddy for us to learn from.

I like that. Saying, “I submit to you” as i would “i love you.” Thank you! I will ask Daddy his thoughts on that.

Yes. Its a style of relationship and can include sex or not. Not all D/s relationships are kinky. It is part of our 24/7  power exchange  but not all power exchange relationships are sexual.

Impact play. Hands down my most needed kink and integral to our dynamic. Weekly or twice a week if we can. If we go too long without we find our D/s put out of balance. Its a submission reset for me…my  bum is rarely without beautiful brusies

Hello Trouble.
my husband /daddy-dom have been together 27 years and are in our second year in what we call 23/7 D/s. It  means we are 24/7 except when we cant be….parenting , sick, emergency,  whatever.  Sometimes the vanilla world has to be let in briefly. We are learning how to ebb and flow with that.

What we have decided is that our ru…[Read more]

I understand. My husband/daddydom found the book The Loving Dominant very helpful As he is not by nature a domineering person.  We are in month 6 of our Ds journey and it definitely takes time and experiment and above all communication… we talk about our Ds dynamic 2-3x a week and we review our contract monthly because so much changes as we…[Read more]