Im a babgirl but not a little. It distinguishes me from being a slave, or service sub, and affirms my dom as head of household and provider and protector. It means i get spanked for punishment but never humiliated, belittled or berated because those make my babygirl self cry and feel sad instead if submissive and contrite (and they are not kinky…[Read more]
been a while since i posed a question, but Daddy (aka Shifter) and i are looking to add more rituals and rules to our 24/7 D/s. Daddy in particular wants things that will keep us reminded of my submission. We have many many already, but are looking to up the level / protocol. We have categorized our rules and rituals into areas that…[Read more]
Impact play. Hands down my most needed kink and integral to our dynamic. Weekly or twice a week if we can. If we go too long without we find our D/s put out of balance. Its a submission reset for me…my bum is rarely without beautiful brusies
my husband /daddy-dom have been together 27 years and are in our second year in what we call 23/7 D/s. It means we are 24/7 except when we cant be….parenting , sick, emergency, whatever. Sometimes the vanilla world has to be let in briefly. We are learning how to ebb and flow with that.
What we have decided is that our ru…[Read more]
My husband and i have been married 24 years and together for 27 years total. 6 months ago We have renegotiated our marriage to be Ds and have crossed into 24/7, as Ds is now template through which we communicate and define our relationship.
I would really LOVE to converse with other subs and Ds married or long term commitment couples who have m…[Read more]
I understand. My husband/daddydom found the book The Loving Dominant very helpful As he is not by nature a domineering person. We are in month 6 of our Ds journey and it definitely takes time and experiment and above all communication… we talk about our Ds dynamic 2-3x a week and we review our contract monthly because so much changes as we…[Read more]
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