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  • #1295

    Missy
    Keymaster

    Please leave your replies to the above question.

  • #1321

    HisLordship
    Keymaster

    Bondage for me offers the opportunity to express my deep inner kink. I love to have Missy restrained to a point of being totally incapacitated. That moment when, in a relaxed state, she realises that I am turning up the heat and she moves to resist, and nothing happens, except for the expression on her face.

    That’s why I enjoy bondage.

  • #1323

    Missy
    Keymaster

    I love the sense of vulnerability. Being restrained is when I feel the greatest loss of control and like it has been taken from me. When it begins I am still aware that I have control of myself, although not what is going to happen to me, and it is that which leads to me losing it altogether. I feel that I am at HisLordship’s mercy which is an exciting thought. I trust him completely but also know that he will push my boundaries and as he becomes caught up in it himself, he will go further and further.  As with all submission there is an element of giving yourself and an element of being taken, and I find that bondage allows a quick crossover for me mentally from one state to the other.

  • #1366

    Beth [MM]
    Participant

    I like the feeling of helplessness, the feeling that MrMan has control over me. I like the feel of the cuffs around my wrists and ankles, or the rope or chains agains my skin. It all enhances the feeling of my belonging to him.

  • #1369

    I’ll echo what Beth and Missy said. I love how I have a complete loss of control over the situation. I feel helpless and it becomes easier to sirrender any remaining power I might have.

  • #1371

    MisterMan
    Keymaster

    I like playing with the tease and the torment of it, doing things that show/remind her that she cannot move or speak or otherwise do something. Things like predicament bondage, asking her questions while she has a gag in her mouth, or continuing to stroke her after she’s climaxed and is still sensitive. All things that out of context she would find unpleasant but in the heat of the scene she betrays an eagerness for.

  • #5627

    Somara
    Participant

    The feeling of control and the power to get into the mind and use the body of the submissive completely. with the knowledge she is freely giving her self over to me. the excitement of finding new pleasure daring to explore completely with no inhabitations. creating a new form of love.

  • #5807

    kitten (KittensSir)
    Participant

    What I like about bondage is the power exchange that occurs and the accompanying vulnerability. It definitely helps it tame the control enthusiast running rampant in my head. Submitting to the will and wishes of my Sir is very thrilling and comforting. I know he will stretch and challenge me…. something I’ve craved for a long time. I know he wants to help shape me into the person we both know I on the inside.

  • #5973

    Submissivelady
    Participant

    I love the feeling of being completely in My Sir’s control. He always has control, but when bondage comes into play, there is absolutely no doubt about who is calling the shots. Bondage allows me to go deeper into my submissiveness, and I love the way the bonds feel on my skin. When I’m tied My Sir has another layer of control over me and as I lose myself in the touch and feel of the bonds and My Sir on me, my mind tends to let go even more than in any other type of play that we engage in. All play with My Sir is my favorite, but any play that includes bondage is my favorite of favorites. ;-)~

  • #6226

    Queen’s Hubby
    Participant

    Echoing Beth and missy also! It’s about loss of control and vulnerability. Just as the whole D/s dynamic brings emotional vulnerability, bondage brings a physical layer on top of that. It requires a level of trust in My Queen that builds incredible intimacy. In all honesty, we’re new to bondage and still figuring it out.

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