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Hello Missy,
I have an idea, I’m not sure if this happens now so if it does please disregard this post.
I was thinking of having a focused discussion on a single type of kink each week or so. LittleOne and I have found many new kinks that we really enjoy and some we don’t. By talking to others.
We often think we have structured our dynamic to how we want and can’t imagine it getting any better.
For example recently we have gotten into rope. In the beginning I was opposed to rope, but after getting to know some people on Fet and getting together, rope is one of our favorite kinks.
Possible topics:
Fire play, breath play, suspension, and introducing additional play partners as well as many others.
Im thinking that there may be others on this site that might not even be aware that some of these kinks even exist.
Hope I’m not rambling ?
Thank you Missy
Mr. D
Hi Mr D,
We currently have the Dom and sub discussions on a Thursday at 8pm (UK time), and the focussed topic chats on a Tuesday at 8.30pm (UK time) and every second Thursday at 8pm (Eastern Time). If you wanted to lead one of these then we could add you to the calendar or if you wanted to do something more regular (or a series even) then we could set you up for that at a time that would work for you. Our idea was always that others could be involved and lead chats and discussions on topics of interest or specialist knowledge so we would welcome you doing that if you and LittleOne wanted to. Let me know what you think and what times etc would work for you.
Missy 🙂
Could we set a topic chat on rituals different dynamics use? Some folks have mentioned sitting by their Doms feet, picking clothing for one another, etc. It would be great to hear what others use to reinforce their D/s dynamic.
another idea, over the holidays lots of folks shared photos of themselves and a while back during a discussion we found out many of us have tails and a few more are interested. How about a “show your tail” event, anyone can show off their tail toys and if they’d like to be wearing it in the photo that’s up to them!
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When did you misread a situation with a partner or potential partner? What would you tell yourself earlier in your D/s journey?
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I would like to suggest “discipline” as a topic. I am not thinking of discipline as punishment or examples of how to discipline a sub. I think more broadly of whether discipline is essential to D/s and why. This is a more Dom-centered issue, ostensibly, since Doms discipline and train subs. To do so, however, they need to be disciplined in their approach and they have a responsibility to train (i.e., learn how to do things properly). Sub-questions (pun intended) include: where do subs’ responsibilities lie with respect to exercising (self)-discipline, why, and what does that involve?
As an aside: it would be interesting to see if there are cultural differences involved in views on discipline and how the question relates to people’s views on power exchange.
High/low protocols and where they fit within everybody’s dynamic. Do people use a mixture of them both or do they try to mould to either of the 2 levels?
Are there specific protocols you have in place that most other people haven’t?
How would you best advise somebody that doesn’t use protocols on how to engage with the idea and make it work if they wish to.
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