Phone tracker

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    • #7383
      Anonymous

      An on-going issue I have had with my husband is him never knowing where I am going or what I am doing. I never felt I was keeping anything from him but since it bothers him I am making changes for him. My asking permission before leaving is something that has been working well but there are times when I can’t get ahold of him and I need to leave. I don’t answer my phone when in the car so I think a tracker on my phone would eliminate any issues of him not knowing where I am. Has anyone had experience with them or know any good ones to suggest? I have no problem with him tracking me.

    • #7384
      Sweet (MrH)
      Keymaster

      Hello, there is an app that MrH and I use, called Life360 it is available on android and apple.

      MrH and I know where we will be during the day (work/shop/home) and when we arrive at work we message to say “arrived safe” we check in throughout the day.  I sometimes let him know when I leave work but I always let him know when I arrive back home.

      Because we ride motorbikes we got this so if one of us didn’t arrive when expected the other person could locate them.

      A bigger issue from reading your post is that he seem to not trust you.  A phone tracker has its place but (and again this is just my opinion) if you are in a relationship (and not just a D/s one) trust is extremely important.  He may just be concerned for your safety and I understand that but a few things to remember, tracker apps use your location and it will affect your battery life.  This should be activated both ways so you see where each other are.

      Sweetgirl

       

       

    • #7385
      Anonymous

      Thank you for your suggestion. I do believe it is more of a safety issue for him as he keeps repeating if something happens to me he can’t help me if he doesn’t know where I am.  The app will be on both of our phones. We have had some discussions of things that have been bothering him and he has made it known this was a big deal to him because I stop responding when I am out. It just seemed silly to let him know i’m here, left there etc. I didn’t think it was a big deal until after we spoke and he explained how disrespectful it was knowing how it bothered him.   I understand our dynamic and if he doesn’t like something I am doing, it must be changed. This seemed like a great way to be transparent and allow him to know where I am and to show him I do care about pleasing him.

    • #7386
      Sweet (MrH)
      Keymaster

      I am glad you have talked about this.  The life360 app is pretty great.

      Give it a try.

      Hopefully we will see you at the chat?  There is one tomorrow at 8pm GMT

      Sweetgirl

    • #7387
      Anonymous

      Yes I do plan on joining the chat tomorrow, thanks for asking. I’ve been looking for a chat room to get input from others for those times I struggle to comply with direction. It doesn’t happen often, but it would be comforting to know there are like minded people that will encourage me to comply instead of rebel.

    • #7388
      Sweet (MrH)
      Keymaster

      Great see you later!

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