- 11/11/2019 at 4:19 pm #7383Anonymous
An on-going issue I have had with my husband is him never knowing where I am going or what I am doing. I never felt I was keeping anything from him but since it bothers him I am making changes for him. My asking permission before leaving is something that has been working well but there are times when I can’t get ahold of him and I need to leave. I don’t answer my phone when in the car so I think a tracker on my phone would eliminate any issues of him not knowing where I am. Has anyone had experience with them or know any good ones to suggest? I have no problem with him tracking me.
- 11/11/2019 at 7:42 pm #7384
Hello, there is an app that MrH and I use, called Life360 it is available on android and apple.
MrH and I know where we will be during the day (work/shop/home) and when we arrive at work we message to say “arrived safe” we check in throughout the day. I sometimes let him know when I leave work but I always let him know when I arrive back home.
Because we ride motorbikes we got this so if one of us didn’t arrive when expected the other person could locate them.
A bigger issue from reading your post is that he seem to not trust you. A phone tracker has its place but (and again this is just my opinion) if you are in a relationship (and not just a D/s one) trust is extremely important. He may just be concerned for your safety and I understand that but a few things to remember, tracker apps use your location and it will affect your battery life. This should be activated both ways so you see where each other are.
- 11/11/2019 at 8:25 pm #7385Anonymous
Thank you for your suggestion. I do believe it is more of a safety issue for him as he keeps repeating if something happens to me he can’t help me if he doesn’t know where I am. The app will be on both of our phones. We have had some discussions of things that have been bothering him and he has made it known this was a big deal to him because I stop responding when I am out. It just seemed silly to let him know i’m here, left there etc. I didn’t think it was a big deal until after we spoke and he explained how disrespectful it was knowing how it bothered him. I understand our dynamic and if he doesn’t like something I am doing, it must be changed. This seemed like a great way to be transparent and allow him to know where I am and to show him I do care about pleasing him.
- 11/11/2019 at 9:03 pm #7386
I am glad you have talked about this. The life360 app is pretty great.
Give it a try.
Hopefully we will see you at the chat? There is one tomorrow at 8pm GMT
- 11/11/2019 at 9:16 pm #7387Anonymous
Yes I do plan on joining the chat tomorrow, thanks for asking. I’ve been looking for a chat room to get input from others for those times I struggle to comply with direction. It doesn’t happen often, but it would be comforting to know there are like minded people that will encourage me to comply instead of rebel.
- 12/11/2019 at 6:51 am #7388
Great see you later!
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