- 21/02/2020 at 12:37 am #7748B1ond13Participant
I am new. I really want to learn or train to be a sub. Help me out with some advise.
- 30/03/2020 at 10:46 pm #7886Captain’s GirlParticipant
That is so vague. Are you in a relationship and trying to incorporate D/s? Are you trying to learn as part of a career? Do you want to be a club girl? What is your goal beyond “be submissive”?
- 31/03/2020 at 2:00 am #7887B1ond13Participant
I am single. I am looking for d/s relationship if and when I find the right man.
- 19/04/2020 at 6:11 am #9241Captain’s GirlParticipant
Ok. I am zero help to you. My experience in D/s is only with my husband, and we had been together for 15+ years before we decided to get into the lifestyle. Maybe some of the people who have been here longer will have some suggestions.
- 24/04/2020 at 2:05 pm #9439Sub666Participant
There are a lot of books and websites that will introduce you to the topics. Look for ones that speak to you. The classic is by Jay Wiseman: SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. I just bought a book “submissive reflection” on submissiveguide.com, which has a lot of resources, but take everything with a grain of salt – what works for me may not for you.
Enjoy the journey- even if it is frustrating to know where to start. You are only new to this for a little while! You are so lucky to know what you want, and be brave enough to act on it!
Safety is most important- if something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t. Learn the difference between submitting and being abused!
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