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    • #7748
      B1ond13
      Participant

      I am new. I really want to learn or train to be a sub. Help me out with some advise.

    • #7886
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      That is so vague. Are you in a relationship and trying to incorporate D/s? Are you trying to learn as part of a career?  Do you want to be a club girl? What is your goal beyond “be submissive”?

    • #7887
      B1ond13
      Participant

      I am single. I am looking for d/s relationship if and when I find the right man.

    • #9241
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      Ok. I am zero help to you. My experience in D/s is only with my husband, and we had been together for 15+ years before we decided to get into the lifestyle. Maybe some of the people who have been here longer will have some suggestions.

       

    • #9439
      Sub666
      Participant

      There are a lot of books and websites that will introduce you to the topics. Look for ones that speak to you. The classic is by Jay Wiseman: SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. I just bought a book “submissive reflection” on submissiveguide.com, which has a lot of resources, but take everything with a grain of salt – what works for me may not for you.

      Enjoy the journey- even if it is frustrating to know where to start. You are only new to this for a little while! You are so lucky to know what you want, and be brave enough to act on it!

      Safety is most important- if something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t. Learn the difference between submitting and being abused!

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